Divorce your wife, love your daughter, stop your damn drinking. you think that becoming an alcoholic is better than her living a happy life with 2 sober parents, even if it's in seperate homes?
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your happiness in life is just as important as hers, so leave the b****!
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That alcohol helps everything, doesn't it?
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i think your daughter would rather see you happy then drunk.
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Dump her. Or fix her. You may be able to turn her around..
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Staying together and unhappy for your child will only make it harder on her. She'll feel like it's her fault. (As an only child, I can attest to that.) But more than that-- I grew up with a father who was an alcoholic. If you really love your daughter, find a way to live your life without drinking heavily. I'm twenty-two now and have been a mess for about the last ten years of my life. I'm not saying it's all my father's fault, but I do know it played a part-- a big one. Think about it. And I hope you manage to find some kind of peace.
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and you think this is helping your daughter how?
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people like that are "funsuckers"...
the dude in rock needs a hard one to show
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My parents had to get married and my father was miserable and drank heavily. It f*** up my life and my sibbling, because that is the example we have of what marriage should be like and never saw signs of affection. It was a misable childhood. I never had a happy home life and I envy people who did.We always said when we were little "i wish they would divorce". You are not only hurting yourself, but also your daughter. I don't believe in staying with someone for the children.
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leave her!
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where was that picture taken? It's amazing
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Well now her Dad is a drunk and her Mom is a b****. Don't you think you ought to straighten up and be there for her.Once you have children self should take second place. Be a HERO for your daughter! quit being a pussy be a man.
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Perhaps she sucks the life out of you cause your a drunk and she is tired of it
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AMEN
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I would love to hook her up with my husband. Then we can run off and be happy
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Make some life changes, forget the bottle go do activities with your child. I stayed with my husband too long and now I have found happiness. My child and I have our lives back. It is not always easy.
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Please get sober...You and wife I'm sure are sucking the life out of your daughter. Leave eachother if that's the only happiness you can find and love your daughter to death.
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wow how does your wife make you feel that bad, Im just curious so I dont do it to my husband. if you could reply that would be sweet and Im sorry your wife is such a drag :(
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also, what I couldn't fit is that I feel like I am a husk of a man and feel the need to die
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save us from wife damnation
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I have also found getting drunk does take the edge off...
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LOVE the comments!
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If you are not happy - get out of the relationship. Your daughter will still be your daughter.
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beg her to go to at least 6 al anon meetings
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YEAH!!! An alcoholic father is much better than a divorced one, GREAT plan!!!
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You sound like my former best friend and her husband. But, both of you may still be hurting your daughter by living as such. Sometimes a breakup is better for the kids.
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Drinking is systematic - if you feel like I do you know there would be nothing better than getting away from the hag. You love the kids and feel obligated...but is it good for them to see the horrible example of marriage? Even if your drinking is private - there are other escapes you cling to, even working out. The end result is the same. You don't love your wife and you resent her because you blame her for your misery. You can't leave - you are trapped. The divorce would cost you a fortune. Ugh. What to do?? B
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Dude I feel u...I do almost everything and my wife has an ass of excuses for everything.....doesn't cook, clean....14 months in and can't put the baby to sleep.....cooked six meals in 16yrs...sometime I feel like a f***en anchor is around my neck.....she defaulted on her student loans but has a f***en Starbucks coffee daily....britches that she never buys herself anything but the f***en entire back bedroom is her closet....always acts overwhelmed but doesn't do shit....I pay 80% of the bills....I do the grocery shopping because I also do the cooking....took f***en 14yrs to get her to pitch in with laundry....washes dishes like she has trex vision....sex???...I won't disrespect her with a rating...f***....I love her but how much is enough?....I'm venting here because I've tried all approaches and it lasts a week each time before we are back at the same point....I wish I could just leave with my daughter sometimes because she doesn't pull her weight...impatient with our daughter....if she was on JOHN MADDEN HER RATING WOULD BE THIS:DISHES: 4Cooking: 0Cleaning: 4Consistency: 3Laundry: 3Consideration:4 (I work ten hr shifts..no meal when I come home...)Effort: 5Sex: ???????????????Friendship: 8Honesty: 4 (she cheated the 2nd yr of our marriage)....poor historianMemory: 10 (for her interests)/ 2 for responsibilityI love her and that's the problem.
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And I don't drink so this is a sober based misery...sad thing is I fake happiness and because of that I feel like I've lost a part of myself....I suggested counseling....I have offered to do more on top of what I do....I have done everything I can....no...I'm not perfect but can you understand how it is to know the let down is around the corner no matter how much you lend support with positive reinforcement???!!!!!!!!!!!!
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For example....I'm typing this while she is fast asleep and I'm up with a 14 month old and this is nightly....she tried for 5 minutes to put her to sleep before passing her off to me....but this New Year's Eve she made sure she got her drink on...me...I remained sober....if not for me...I would fear for my daughters care.....I....am....burning.....out
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I am recovering from a stroke and my wife absolutely sucks at caregiving talk about controlling I spent 7 months in the hospital and still wish I was there then I woul only have to put up with her craziness 3 hours a day during visiting hours
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Your wife is an awfull whore. Toss her in the gutter where she belongs. Stupid butch
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She probably feels the same about you
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It's not just her. Instead of fixing your problems your adding to it. Okay she may not be "perfect" or "fun" but seeing u drunk everyday can add to her emotions and crankiness... Maybe if u man up and get rid of your drinking.. Then she may change also. I feel sorry for your daughter. Not only does she s*uck but apparently you do too.
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Lived this life for many years, it got to the point where there wasn't enough booze to make it go away. I gave up everything just to get away from her and get my sanity back. My head is clear, I live every day happy and I still drink, but it's for fun now.
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Dude its her job to emasculate you and destroy your ego !
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Welcome to the club, buddy !!
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I can promise you this...your child(ren) would MUCH rather have a sober, divorced parent than a drunk, miserably married parent. Don't drink to fix this. Man up, grow a pair, and face the inevitable. Divorce is looming. Do the deed and move on. Your child will be hurt either way, but you HAVE to decide which will cause the least amount of trauma to her.
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Your first bad choice was the women you married.Lets face it,she will destroy you.Your seccond bad choice is your drinking.Don't forget your seccond wind. Get your life together and find yourself, the way you were. Some women can suck the life right out of you.
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u dont HAVE to get drunk, u choose to so get a better solution
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You are a coward,leave her and be a real man,your love for your daughter wont change
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SMOKE CRACK THEN YOULL LEAVE
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seriously, you sound like my step-dad....i think if it werent for my little sister he would have left my mom by now or vice versa! :(
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I hear yah bro....I'm right back where I started, broke(child support and other bills), alone(I married so I wouldn't be alone) and miserable.....that rope looks like a savior!
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I felt trapped in a relationship with a man I didn't love and drank to a black-out every night just to be there. I finally got sober and got out. The result was that two years later I met the best guy in the world and we have four awesome kids. Don't let anybody suck away all your joy. We all deserve better.
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