i am 29 yrs old and could've written this myself. i am also afraid that someone will marry me and i will disappoint him later in life then he will leave me.
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I am curious.. why do you feel no one would love or marry you ?
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Don't buy that "you have to love yourself" horseshit. Some of us are f***ed up enough to be incapable of that yet worthy of someone else's love. I'm on the same boat. Being lonely is rough, aint it?
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This was me five years ago.
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This is me now! I am 30...I want to be married and have babies so badly!
I am scared I will never be able to have this...
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If you believe that, you'll probably prove yourself right. It is a pity. Alternately, you could look at yourself objectively and make some changes. First thing is to love yourself, that in no way means to be shallow/self-centered/embracing hubris. In order to love others, it's common to be happy and love oneself. -esc
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Don't put yourself in a box. You may meet someone and all of a sudden you will change your mind.
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Well then, go with your gut. Don't marry and for god's sake don't reproduce. thank you.
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Finding someone to love and love you back doesn't just happen. It's like everything else in life that you strive for. If you want that dream job, you make goals and do whatever is needed to achieve your goals. Just apply the same concept to finding love. Love takes time.
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i am 29 yrs old and could've written this myself. i am also afraid that someone will marry me and find another to love
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I do. So where does that leave me? Alone...
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Yeah I bet it works like a charm too doesn't it?
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I'm 27, want children & marriage but can't find someone who doesn't have problems. I think some of their issues rubbed off on me tho.
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which brings the question: how do you GET self esteem? I know about 3 million ways to lose it.. what does that say about society?
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your misery is out there waiting for you somewhere. Be patient
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my gf knows that I dont necessarily want children; she does. In fact works with them every day. I have told her I may change my mind. The real reason I say I don't, is because im scared to death of being a failure of a father. I can hardly take care of myself, let alone have a little one that depends on me..... I dont want to mess it up. but I do know that my love for her is stronger than my fear of babies.
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Don't feel like the Lone Ranger.
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DO YOU NOT SEE THE FLAW IN YOUR PLAN??? Why would you tell everyone that you don't want something when you really do? I think you really need to change your tactic before it's too late!
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I felt that way before
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