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I worry that the love of my life hates me, and all I can seem to about it is lash out at her. Why do I do this?

I worry that the love of my life hates me, and all I can seem to about it is lash out at her. Why do I do this?

 
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if you really love someone, you don't take the anger personally. i don't, think it's unconditional. you just know they don't mean it and forgive them. you got to be tough.
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Why do you think your love hates you? Yes,lashing out at her is very destructive, and her hating you could become a self-fulfilling prophecy if you keep it up. You probably do this out if insecurity and fear. I hope you find the answers that you are looking for, and good luck to you.:)
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You should talk to a professional about this before she leaves you. Yes, if you treat her like that it is just a matter of time before she leaves you.
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^That is total BS, and you have no self-respect!
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cuz u r an a$$hole!
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your grammar sux!!!
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You do it because what you feel for her scares you. Men and women are so different! She understands, but her emotions get the better of her. Then, there is all the stigma not to be your doormat. Do you understand her? Probably not. Guess what she probably loves you as much if not more than you love her! She is hurt...feels second best and betrayed. If there is any hope the games need to stop and the communication needs to start! If she is really the love of your life then grab her and never let her go! Talk to her, tell her how you feel. Be real....if she dosen't reciprocate then you have the answer you were looking for, and you can move on without guilt. What do you really have to lose???
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^yeah
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I think she loves you, but whatever happened that makes you believe she hates you, has her 'locked up' inside. She can't let herself feel her love for you because it hurts too much, but she can't let go either, because she still loves you.
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