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I was abused as a child. I am afraid that if my child becomes an abuser, I might not be able to love him anymore.

I was abused as a child. I am afraid that if my child becomes an abuser, I might not be able to love him anymore.

 
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Your child isn't going to spontaneously become abusive. If you haven't abused him/her, then (s)he hasn't learned that behavior. Just be a good parent and you and your child will be fine.
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It is solely your responsibility to raise your child and teach them morals. If you protect and Educate your child about this kinda stuff they will be ok.
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hell, my baby sitter abused me until I made her stop when I turned 44 years of age. I suffered NO ill effects! (butt, I miss her)
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^freudian slip? (butt I miss her)
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I haven't hurt him. Would put a bullet in my brain first. I'm just so scared....the whole nature/nurture thing. What if that is who he is waiting to become? IDK Dahmer had a normal life, and look how he turned out.
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^Are you f***ing kidding me??..."Dahmer had a normal life"??? Really?.....Do some research before you show your stupidity....Dahmer had anything but a "normal life"...
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^Why so surprised? This website is full of ignorant people!
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Lesbos have "normal lives"... I guess.
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^What does that statement have to do with this post?
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you will love him. enough to get him the help and support he need. your his mother no matter what. period.
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