Your an adult now. It is your responsibility to speak up. If you feel it, say it.
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r u a woman?
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Strange that a girl would molest a girl??
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With an abuser, it's all about them having power over someone, it's not really about sex. I know where the OP is coming from and it's something that sticks with you for life. Some of us can never have a real adult relationship because of it. OP, you need to talk it over with a professional, preferably a trauma specialist. It took me years to learn how to live with it and realize that it wasn't my fault. It won't go away but it can get better...
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Was your abuser an "a$$clown"?
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you were molested by different people? bad luck or post traumatic stress/displaced emotional memories? are you sure these are the people that molested you? i know someone who (sapposedly) was molested at some point, but she accuses everyone at some time. it seems to change abusers but never change crime? very strange
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People that are abused at a young age often take on qualities that make them good "prey" for other abusers. Abusers pick up on these "tells" thus once a person that has been abused has a higher chance of being abused again. Being abused often creates people that are untrusting and maladjusted, people that are not going to report the abuse to the police because they dont trust them therefore they are the perfect person for an abuser to target. This to the person who clearly is uneducated that posted this: "you were molested by different people? bad luck or post traumatic stress/displaced emotional memories? are you sure these are the people that molested you? i know someone who (sapposedly) was molested at some point, but she accuses everyone at some time. it seems to change abusers but never change crime? very strange"If you knew anything about psychology perhaps your comments would have some worth. Unfortunately for you, your comment reflects the type of worthless, uneducated person you are.
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i was abused by several dif cousins in dif ages of my life i never really thought it affected me til i read this post i dont trust anyone ever and always feel completly alone
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^ All who have been abused, women and men both (And yes, boys are abused too, though the "macho" culture we have is hard on men who seek help for it), seek help! Get counseling! It doesn't have to involve your family, it involves YOU!
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