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Im having an affair with a married man and Ive fallen in love with him. I know he will never leave his wife and it kills me, I should walk away but im to weak

Im having an affair with a married man and Ive fallen in love with him. I know he will never leave his wife and it kills me, I should walk away but im to weak

 
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it hurts even when its good...same boat. what should we do.
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it just sucks when you meet the love of your life and try to pretend he doesn't already have a loving family. it's sooooooo hard. gosh i wish sometimes it didn't happen cuz it's going to hurt...
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^LOL-go gurl go gurl
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^amen
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This sucks i know first hand. People are going to say you deserve this...call you a homewrecker...blah..blah..blah. Ignore it...you can't help who you love, and he is just as much to blame in this as you are. Men can be very charming, and say all the right things to get what they want. WHat they need to understand, is that women are very different creatures...emotional creatures. It is very hard for most of us to just have a "physical" relationship with a man without developing feelings of some kind. DO what your heart tells you..
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You should have some morals and go find your own man. If he cheats on her he will cheat on you. Stupid women.
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^lol, one way to look at
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you knew he was married from the start. did you think he was going to break up his family for you? all you are is a piece of ass to him, some thing on the side.im not saying he doesnt love you, he probably does but its gone as far as its going to go. the next hoiladay when hes home with his family and you sitting by yourself, think of him maybe that will give you the strenght to call it off
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Men are pigs. The sooner you learn that, the better off you will be. Yours ain't no different.
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My boyfriend always says guys are dogs... guess he is talking about himself too even tho he says he isnt.
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^Judgmental f**k
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My situation is the same, except  I'm the married one, he's single. Yes, he's using you just like they used me. This advice, the good advice, will also help me. I am also very weak, cuz I fell for him too, but I am trying with all my heart, to let him go.  Listen to the advice, let's do it, let's break free from their grip.
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Nothing a little Alabama Black Snake won't cure.
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He dosent love you, he dosent love his wife-he loves himself and his "reputation", Put yourself first chicky, you have the right to be happy; walk away before you let this ass destroy you.
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You KNEW he was married to begin with! You don't give a shit about what you're doing to his family! ROT IN HELL HOMEWRECKER
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^YOU FIRST! You judgemental, arrogant, self-righteous douche bag!
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Dont let yourself go thru that and let him have his cake and eat it to. I know its extremely hard to give up on someone or something you have always wanted. Dont give him the best of you if he never gave you the best of him. He is just using you for whatever it is that his wife is obviously not satisfying him with. In the end you will end up hurt and alone. There are plenty of other men out there. Make sure the next one is not married!
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I'm amazed at how many whores are on this site. You piece of trash. He's married. Move on and find your OWN man instead of stealing someone else's. Slut.
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You may meet some need in him now more than just sex but it wont last... it never does...how do I know? Cause Im a woman who does the same thing to guys.. I make them think I will leave eventually but I never do.. never! Im on my 3rd guy.. I do get addicted to them for awhile but then I purposely wreck it so they will go away. They are always a wreck when they leave... Someone else always comes along and gets caught in my web soon afterwards... Im Damn selfish and so is your guy!
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^ You are awful! I am a woman who has had two lovers and it didn't workout either time, but not because I purposely wrecked it. How could you be so callous...men have feelings also you know. One day you are going to really fall for someone and they are going to rip yor heartout. That is generally how karma works. Glad I am not you!
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I had an affair from age 16 to 19. He was 26 when I met him.I broke it off and he continued to pursue me with broken promises.My new boyfriend was the one who threatened to go to his wife and he finally left me alone. Trust me I know he found a new one. I still know where he lives to this day. He has a HUGE beer belly.:0 oh snap!
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Girl you need to get strong Fast! You are being USED!
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I have the same problem with a woman. I know how much it sucks.
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you should suffer for the f***ing rest of your pathetic life, f*** your pain, you are helping someone cheat on a lifetime commitment to monogamy, if he can't settle for the wife anymore, he should have gotten out first or at least separated before you came along to confuse his dick, you cum guzzling whore
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