I had a friend in the exact same situation, it wasn't until she got busted that it stopped. Her husband came home and because he answered the phone and unknowingly confirmed a deal he was sentenced to 6mos in prison as an accessory. CA (cocaine anonymous) or a 16-step program will help you if you seek it.
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what's wrong with you is you are a drug addict. i had they same problem (but no children thank god) and it will not just magically stop without seeking treatment. think about it this way, your child will never get to know what a wonderful mother you are if you are dead....and it won't take long honey with a hbit like that. dont be afraid of what your family and friedns will say when they find out, they would want you to be healthy! please go to social services and get some help before you regret it. there was a woman who left her baby with some guy so she could go buy crack and by the time she came back he had beaten the baby to death and hid her body under a mattress...i personally have met woman who have sold their children for drugs. don't become one of them!
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Well, you obviously have already made a step in the right direction. You have recognized you have a problem. And even on a web site you have reached out. So now you have to fight. I'm sure if you go to your family and tell them your going to treatment they will support you. Don't tell you hubby until he's back. He does not not need that, he needs to focus or he could die. But remember addicts DIE, unless the get treatment. God speed to you
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^telling her to lie to her husband is not good, it just breeds more dishonesty and she needs to face the truth right now. go pick up a phone book, look up narcotics anonymous and go to a meeting. they will give you all the resources you will need in order to recover! good luck xoxoxo
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^^^ I did not tell her to lie. She said her hubby was over seas. So odds are he could be in a war zone. If his mind is on these further family problem it could get him killed or someone else killed. She needs treatment, by the time he gets back she could successfully completed it and be on the road to recovery, then when face to face she can tell him everything. Not in some letter or phone call.Those who been in the military in the last 20 years know what I am saying.
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find a VERY good friend and ask him/her to help you.tell them everything and be willing to change.Make you kid proud of you.
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You're an addict. Get help.
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You can do it, you can be a loser crack head mother.
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Tantalizing advice from a bunch of crackheads...to a mother crackhead. Here's some advice- let someone else take care of the kid til you straighten out before you kill both you.
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You are an addict. Next step - crack whore. Call the N A hotline and go to N A meetings.
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.....a trophy wife ??????? MAJOR eyeroll here
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^^so you would rather keep your son with YOU because crack is safer than weed? put down the pipe dear, you are not thinking clearly! as far as being a "trophy" wife, why not work on being a "good" or "honest" wife?
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I think a kid that is with a bunch of stoners has a better chance then a kid with a crack addict. For starters you can't die from weed. What happens if you OD and die on the floor?
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^or your kid for that matter :( she is too f***ed up to see how bad it really is!
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I feel sorry for your husband, he is gonna wish he had never met you. If he is lucky he will get out before you wreck his life
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i have stop and iam proud of myself i am taking care of my kid and thanks for the people that are positive influence saying i can do it
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^^^so he shouldn't know that his own child is in danger? would you want your wife to continue to lie to you or would you want to know the truth for your child's sake? if he is man enough to go to a different country and fight he is man enough to know the mother of his child is endangering her and her childs life!
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I'm a military wife and I agree... do NOT tell your husband until he is stateside. He could risk his mission and the mission of his soldiers. THIS IS ONLY IF YOU ARE GOING TO GET HELP. If you plan on staying on crack, you're f***ed. I DO think you want help though. Stop it with the drugs. Your baby deserves more. Just the fact that you're messed up and taking care of that baby.. he or she deserves a whole Mommy... and not to mention all of that money could have gone to good things for you and your child while Daddy is at War. You could have taken the baby on a trip to see family with that money.. bought him or her cute new clothes and had photo sessions done to send to Daddy.. see where I'm going with this? You're also using his deployment pay to support your habit. STOP IT. PLEASE!!
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^^^ Glad someone has sense to see what I said earlier, on not telling him. If you never been in the military or a family member most can't understand what they go through. Anyways, you need treatment(OP), you need to go to your closest family members tell them you need them to take care of your child while you're in treatment. And kick this thing in the ASS!!!! People are counting on you, and people believe in you.
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if the military is all about lying i guess i'm glad i'm not in it.....
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^^^dumb ass
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well i have to help myself i cant ask my family to take care of my son bcuz they smoke weed but iam not doing it anymore i get to see my husband in 30 days so i am getting my shit together my husband is in the navy on the carl vinson and i want to be a trophy wife not a shit bag
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