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Lied to my husband about every part of my life.  I never thought I would marry him. Now, I can't take him anywhere near my family. If he finds he'll leave me.

Lied to my husband about every part of my life. I never thought I would marry him. Now, I can't take him anywhere near my family. If he finds he'll leave me.

 
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Stories are just that. If he loves you not because of your story be it true or false. Also if he doesnt have secrets what a drag for you,boring.
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That doesn't sound like a very happy way to live. Wouldn't you feel better if you just told him the truth? Even if he left you because of it, it seems like it would be better than what you are living right now.
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You're not the first woman to deceive a man to get what she wants. You are disgusting, and deserving of all disdain.
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Wait until he meets the half-breed kid you had at 14.
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or, he may reveal even more disgusting secrets, if that is possible
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As a man I would want to know. And it would be better to come from you. If he loves you it will be worked out.You need to sit him down one day, with no distractions at all. Once you tell him he may react in the way you think, but he also needs to process it. Because sooner or later he'll find out, and if it's not from you, that won't be good.
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A relationship built on lies is doomed . Lies always come to light. You should be ashamed . I would confess before he finds out the truth from someone else . Maybe if you are lucky he will love enough to forgive you.
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The Gemsbok rides again! I thought he died in the desert somewhere.
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JUST SO YOU ALL KNOW, THE LIES I TOLD HIM TO BEGIN WITH WAS SO HE WOULD THINK IN HIS MISERY, HE WASN'T ALONE. WHEN I LIED TO HIM, IT WASN'T TO "GET" ANYTHING. I DON'T HAVE 50 KIDS OR ANYTHING. BUT THE LIES WERE SO PERSONAL, IF I TOLD THE TRUTH, HE WOULD LEAVE AND I KNOW IT. I CAN'T TELL HIM, BECAUSE I WOULD TRUTHFULLY HAVE NO WHERE TO GO, AND I WOULD BE HOMELESS. I POOLED EVERYTHING I HAD TO GET THIS PLACE, AND IT'S IN HIS NAME. SO I AM CAUGHT HERE, AND NOT REALLY HAPPY LIVING WITH IT. I DO DESERVE IT.
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why are you yelling?
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Just tell your family to lie for you, he never has to know. Then as time goes by if it ever comes out just say that person is lying. Stick to your story!
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Ok, what was the thing that was so personal, it just sounds weird.as far as something in his name, normally if you two got it together it doesn't make a difference. especially if it was AFTER you got married. but regardless in most states one can't just kick another out, an eviction still has to take place. maybe even bring the lies as a mock thing of someone you know.
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I hope he isnt family oriented--- your goose might be cooked.
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