You can't come out because you are not gay - start being honest with yourself - at least that would give your boyfriend a chance to have a life with someone who loves wants and deserves him because one thing is for sure, you sure as hell don't
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^Wow, you really know how to paint a sterotypical picture! Congrats!
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It's hard I'm in the same boat
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come find me sweetie. i am in need of some female lovin. u need to be true to yourself. look me up. you'll never go back.
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5^You forgot the Harley. Anyways, my sister divorced her husband a while ago, then came out. She's much happier now. ANYONE can make that change. You both deserve it.
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sooner rather than later
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Yes you can, honey. It's harder than so many people realize but I promise you it is worth it just to look yourself in the mirror every morning and know you are true to yourself. You CAN do it. Your heart will tell you when it's time. But you should let the boy go. It's not fair to you and it's definitely not fair to him. He deserves better than that from you and you deserve to give yourself time to figure everything out. I promise you, you can do it. You're not alone, you're not the first, and you won't be the last.PS: Welcome to the family. ;)"The scariest moment is always just before you start. After that, things can only get better." Stephen King
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Those feelings are just a trend dumb*ss....they are real. People are just more willing to admit them now than they were even a few years ago. Uneducated idiots like you are the reason women and men can't be honest to the world about who they really are. Grow up.
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Wait....you mean there are people out there who are gay and don't WANT to be gay? That's not what the gay propaganda machine tells us.
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I have had (safe!) sex with men and with women,and at the end of the day, it really does not matter. With whom and how I have sex is only a very small part of my total personhood. I'm lucky to be in a large city instead of a small town or a suburb where everybody has their nose in other people's business!
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Here's my personal experience: Stop being unfair to yourself, AND your boyfriend. If you're not ready to come out, or if you're in a small town or city where coming out would not be cool, at least tell him "I'm not ready for a realtionship", so he can find somebody new, and both of you can on with your lives. My college crush and I thought we would each be our last relationship. We had each dated a lot of people before we met. But when we were planning the wedding, we started to have all kinds of problems we never had before. Finally, one day, she blurted the whole thing out to me. I asked how this could be, since men had liked her so much! She told me, "I thought that if I were with a lot of men, it would all go away - it is not about you." It hurt, but we remained friends, and she and her partner came to out wedding, and now they are like "aunts" to out kids. Good luck and G-d bless.
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