I had this happen to me also, it sucks, but u will get better. What I did, was I had a friend call my ex and tell her that this was the health clinic calling that a report had been made that she may have been exposed to a STD and they needed her to come in and get checked and go over the list of possible exposures. My friend also called her new BF and gave the same line of BS. Funny thing is he convienced both to go to the health clinc (the appointments were at the same time, LOL). I went to the coffee house accross the street and watched the fireworks, LOL. Paybacks are a b****. It is so immature, but I felt so much better!
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Pearl before Swine will bring you nothing. DUMP HER!
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I feel you! I say, confront her about it. Don't let those other pricks on here make you feel bad for spying. If you've invested in a relationship and you can't trust her you have a right to find out. Trust your instincts. If she is truly sorry for cheating when you confront her, do whatever you feel is best. If she's not sorry, you deserve much better.
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But she IS cheating on him. Big difference.
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^ I agree. What if he hadn't found out. He could have wasted his perfectly good energy on someone who was cheating. 2^ It sounds like your bf is either insecure or you are giving him reason to suspect you. Perhaps he has been cheated on before. I am all for spying if you think you are being cheated on. You have the right to know instead of having your time and energy stolen from you in this relationship.
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So he's supposed to just let her walk all over him? WHATEVER. If I hadn't spied on my fiance, I would have had no reason not to trust him. There was one night he was out with the guys, I trusted him completely, but checked his text messages for the first time ever. Found out he was sleeping with 3 other girls including my best friend and had a baby on the way. SPY! People lie, and you need to know so you don't get hurt.
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i just want to hear the truth from her, like i hate spying but i dont kno wut else to do, like is it to much to ask for the truth
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i wouldnt say i deserve better, im not the greatest person in the world, but i would never ever in a million years do this to someone, and i dont deserve this bs, i just want to be happy
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i want her to be happy because she has never been happy she has lived through hell, she finally starts to feel good about herself and i think its getting to her head, and thts y this is happening? idk:(, ^thnx btw,
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and money and clothes and other things that i did for her.................
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It's a lost cause.
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Stop spying on her and basically being a jealous pr*ck.
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^ pr*ck? are you the one she is sleeping with? to the poster, if you know for sure she is cheating leave her. If your a good man and don't fool around then you can and will find someone that will be faithfull.
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she is happy , with other guys cocks
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2^ They may be fat and ugly, but they'll be faithful.
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What if they are fat and beautiful?? Why is it always fat and ugly as if those two are born together?? There are plenty of Thin and FUGLY out there who will stay faithful too. ;) Good luck with being and a** ****.
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^Except that she was lying to him and stealing his time and love
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2 people in a relationship with each other should have nothing to hide from one another. Therefore it is not spying. Trust is very important and if your lover or spouse can not be trusted. Leave them.
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^I totally agree! I just went through this, found out he absolutely could NOT be trusted, and left him. It is a shame because I really cared for him, and had hoped with all of my heart, that he was different. Not the case...Oh well, things happen for a reason:(
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Why would you want her to be happy? She obvoiusly couldn't give two shits about you.
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^Because he is a bigger person than you are!
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^welcome:)
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Going thru somebody's private things is not your f'n right because you happen to be dating them. It only shows how insecure and childish you are.
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I'll tell you what to do, if you can't beat them, then join them. Either put up or shut up. Get with the game dude. One of four things; Either you two start swinging together and do this together, you start cheating on her and get self satisfaction knowing you know what she doesn't know, or you dump the b**** for cheating on you or you make her a "Sex Slave Girl" and your the master.
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youre a weak sissy to stay with her! Failure as a man!!
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That tired old line of "I wouldn't spy if you were trustworthy" is just lame. Men who do that will always do it because no matter what the woman does, he will always be insecure and determined she must be cheating even if she isn't.
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^But, she is. If you have a feeling someone is cheating on you, you're probably right. People who act all "offended" that you would spy probably have something to hide.
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That's not true. I have never cheated yet he is constantly spying and it drives me so crazy I won't let him stay at my house any longer. He says why do I care if I have nothing to hide, I care because it's disturbing. And usually the ones who are doing the accusing are the ones that are doing the cheating.
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I left my ex for spying. He never found a single thing but it drove me away. It's not worth it. If you feel like you are being cheated on and you can't confront the person and feel like they are honest, then just leave now. It's over at that point. Stop being petty and juvenile. Real relationships are made on trust, not spying and lowlife shenanigans.
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you love her with everything ???? like a chainsaw, a bicycle, an umbrella..whats everything....we need to know ?
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Stop checking up on her. Men who do that are insecure and not sexy. No wonder she cheated. Stop being a loser.
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get some of those new sex growth harmone pills,guys ,girls like them longer and thicker,get my drift.
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Confront her and ask for the truth. If she lies or gets mad about spying, you can tell her you wouldn't spy if she were trustworthy which clearly she is not. You deserve better.
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Be a man for cryin' out loud. Didn't dad teach you anything?
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Pathetic..Sex is overrated!
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