I went without sex for four years before I met the remarkable woman who now shares my life. And this was good, because I really needed to clear my head from destructive relationships, and get in touch with myself. I used the four years to get get healthy, joined a gym, lost forty pounds, played raquetball, stopped smoking, and saved enough money to put down a huge chunk on our present home. If you're not meeting men where you are, maybe a move to a bigger place is in order! Good luck!
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I am in love with someone I can't have...we have been in love for over 20 yrs...but circumstances (controlling, mentally, verbally abusive hubby)The last time I made love with her was 7 yrs ago this november 2015. I used to be able to do one night stands, and a few while married, but this woman and i waited til my ex decided to c=divorce me.....my heart belongs to this woman and I cant go on with love life with anyone else....i gues my pergatory for having been a horn dog all my life chasing one woman after another......I just hope she will come to me one day....she calls from time to time to let me know she loves me...it happens when i start feeling no hope and decide to move on...then she draws me back into the fold....
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we could change that?
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With that atitude your probably right!guys dont like the negativity, just go out have fun open yourself to new things, meet new people and see what happens.
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How far into the nine years was it before you had this feeling?
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What made you stop doing it? Are you in prison or something? I don't get it? Are you deformed?
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What?! Why!? I can't believe you are able to get up and go to work or do anything normal without some enjoyment!
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The only thing standing in your way is you honey. Sometimes you have to pursue your desires, as they don't always just fall into place.
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I agree with the posters above. The ONLY thing keeping you from having SEX is YOU!! If you really want to have SEX, then all you have to do is go to a bar and start chatting to a guy you find attractive and trust me, the rest will sort itself out. However, it seems to me like you are confusing sex with intimacy. If it is intimacy you are after, then you may have to actually open up to someone and run the risk of rejection. That is what is hardest to do. BTW, I am a guy....
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Become a nun goddammit!!!! Think of someone other than yourself.
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that poster is HILARIOUS
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hahahaha!! Yeah that poster is classic!
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Im a 45yr old widow.It's been 8yrs 4 me.I know how you feel. Good luck!
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I went without sex for 10 years
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The dry times are what make the wet times sooo much wetter. Uh, go get laid.
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It's the damn ancient aliens' fault, you know. The reason we crave sex. Those f***ers!
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Just go out some night and make yourself available. Some guys will come to you if you look happy. They might not be the hottest guys there but after 9 years you can't be too picky. If I went 9 years I'd be taking whatever I could get. Thats too long to not enjoy sex.
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Right there with sister it's been 5 for me though. No one is worth the time they are all druggies alcoholics, married or gay!!!
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I think after 9 years...you sure as hell can still be picky. Why do you think it's been 9 years. Being cheated on and treated like crap by the ex for so long....I'll be damned if I will go run out and find some random person to have sex with. It's sad and lonely...but I'm never going to be used that way again.
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^ You will never be used again, that's for sure. You keep Dunkin' Donuts in business.
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WTF are all you females crazy you are a woman YOU have the pussy the ball is in your court just serve already really what do you have to lose??? We all need human contact and it is scientifically proven that SEX helps raise the levels of many hormones that make you feel happier and better about yourself! Not to mention that it helps your immune system and provides a great work out. damn girl get a sitter, grab some friends and get out there and get your freak on!!!
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Lower ur standards. as long as he`s not a f***ing prick, give him some...........but no, u rather date a hot guy with a face like brad pitt and super-man body [regardlesd if he`s an ass] than date a average lookoing NICE GUY!!!! i hope u get bukakeed ON by a group of hot guyz. but may u [and others like u] never find true love.
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Don't listen to them...I was a single mom concentrating on raising my daughters and thought I'd always be alone. After 13 years, I have met the most amazing man, and the lovemaking is absolutely unbelievable! When it's right...it will happen.
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^I guess it is if you waited 13 years! Any man, even an asian could get a woman off after that much time without...
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Why cant you get laid? I have advances daily from guys... but I turn them down to save it for when I see my bf once per month, out of state. Are you not attractive?
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My post is above yours..please don't tell me thats how you started out. As much as I hate being alone, I still cant bring myself to be with someone just to be with them. I dont believe that will make me happy
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There are plenty of fat old desperate men out there that can pass out on top of you after just 1 minute. You just need to lower your standards. Good luck!
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just go to craigs list-- they are giving it a way on there or maybe they are selling it.
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