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My dad doesn't like, or love me. My shrink tells me this is why I date older men. My last boyfriend was 47, I am only 21. I'm sick, I just can't help myself...

My dad doesn't like, or love me. My shrink tells me this is why I date older men. My last boyfriend was 47, I am only 21. I'm sick, I just can't help myself...

 
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i always just liked older men, they are smarter and more exp. ;)
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Dating older guys doesn't make you sick.
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Do you call your boyfriends Daddy?
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What is sick is not one of them really love me. I know this. Im just another twenty something notch on their belt. I feel like I need their attention to make me feel worth while. and that is sick.
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listen little darlin.....you are right. They don't care. Have you considered volunteering? You can get positive attention for actually being needed. The joy you will feel from giving will make you feel worthwhile. You are so better than you let yourself be.
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I always loved dating older men. don't give up. and don't give into sex right away. let them win you over. then you'll know who is real or who just wants sex. My bf is 14 years older. and I LOVE IT. (PS. Grew up without a dad.Some say is called daddy issues.)
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your shrink is full of shit. If he/she is right my mother never loved me. I always dated much older women. By the way my mother loved and still loves me. Go tell your shirk to go to hell.
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^ That's what they all say... at first...
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Hell if shes 19 and goin to dinner with him, then shes getting something there too. Hey it's not a prayer meetin it's dinner...STFU you cynical twit!
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I'm 49, can I help?
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im 35 hit me up?
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I'd hit it.
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Listen to your shrink, not all these idiots. You'll be okay.
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Don't worry about what others think.If you like older guys, good for you. There is nothing wrong with that.Older men are much more mature and are better lovers.
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So you have Daddy issues. Each of these older BFs may or may not represent your Father. But they are not your father. So, look at each of them, and date them for themselves. Forget the age difference, it is irrelevant. Have fun, and try and live without your Dad.
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I am not as young as you, but I prefer older men as well. I don't know if it is "Daddy" issues or not, but that is what makes me hot. The man I am seeing is great...a total gentlemen, handsome, and an incredible lover. You can't help what you like, so don't fight it. Just find one that is good to you...
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Dads, like everyone else, just suck.
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I take a girl whose only 19 to dinner sometimes. No sex and I only do it because like you her father didn't care about her. I treat her like a daughter not a girlfriend. We need each other because I never had children.
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When I was in Hs and intol my 30s I only wanted to date and be with older guys. My father never showed love or allowed me to touch him cause he was sick from the war... I was even jealous when my ex husband held my little girl on his lap cause I always wanted to do that with my dad... But ever since I turned 40 and had so many young guys 18 and in their 20s asking me out, I started liking the young ones... But now 10 years later even tho young guys still ask me out I prefer the mature guys who are older... not over 55 but older cause they are so much more mature and better in bed.
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Every kid likes an easy piece of cougar ass.
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Maybe he's not your real dad? Ever thought of that?
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Unconditional love only comes from one Father.
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You are not sick, nor do you need a shrink. You just need to be selective with whom you decide to share your life, heart, and body. Don't spend so much time worrying about what anyone else thinks....just roll with it. If you like it and it feels good, there is nothing wrong with it.
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I'm 34 and make great money. How far are you from NC?
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Hey what do you think about 63? Give me a calll we can have some fun I got BUX
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^^^definitely, if 47 is good, then 63 is absolutely fantastic. (how about some 79 year old?? even better!!)
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THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU GIRL!You just like older men, no biggie there...Your choices in older men need to improve though. Dont be so quick to give up or give in to sex. Make em earn it babe. take it from a 44 y/o man, anything too easy to bed you tire of fast...
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theres nothing wrong with that. if youre happy who cares how old?
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you just have to realize that dad didn't love you not because you didn't deserve his love, not because you were not worthy... but because he didn't know how to love, himself or anyone. Now you need to learn to love yourself first before you date anyone else... only then will you find the love you really deserve.
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your Dad is the sick one. I wish I could help, I have 3 wonderful daughters and I know you are a sweet lovely girl too. He needs a kick in the ass for treating you this way.
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