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I am not in a relationship, have not been in one for 2 years.  I am happy to be alone, why does everyone else insist that I be with someone?  I like my freedom!

I am not in a relationship, have not been in one for 2 years. I am happy to be alone, why does everyone else insist that I be with someone? I like my freedom!

 
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Do what makes YOU happy!
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I agree. Alone by choice and loving it!
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So who is trying to get you involved with someone? You are right to leave other people alone if you aren't interested in a relationship. Have fun, do your thing. I don't understand why you would rather be alone, but more power to you.
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Because misery loves company!!
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I believe some people are just afraid to be alone. I'm another who loves the freedom. ~ Peace
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Hers or yours ?
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Indeed. I am alone but not lonely. IME the cost/benefit ratio of having a relationship simply isn't worth it.
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If I knew then what I know now I would have just bought a dog instead of putting up with a crappy relationship. I now own two dogs. Works out great!!
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The best part is that I get to be me! At the top of my voice!
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I like being alone too. I have plenty of friends to do things with, but after my bad choices in men over the years I would rather be single than in a relationship. I like to do whatever I want without having to consider another person's feelings about every little thing. Enjoy your freedom!
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I agree being alone is so stress free
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I don't get it either why people make a big deal about being alone. When the time is right, you will know. In the meantime, has some fun! Do what you want!
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Enjoy your freedom!!!
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Being alone is hard work, but so is being in a relationship. One's more physical, one's more a combination of physical and mental. Overall, I'd have to agree—going it alone is so much more fun. A little more stressful when it comes to getting shit done and paying for everything, but, in the end, worth it.
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Middle-aged single guy here and love it. People always asked me when I'm gettin married too. To this day, I see it in couples all the time..I don't know if I could tolerate all the baggage and drama most couples have. The only way to get a good nites sleep is to sleep alone (unless you need another person as a security blanket?)Sex?? Not hard to find!! I do what I want to do..not what someone else wants to do half the time. In the end...we all sleep alone anyway lol. Besides, when you live alone, you know how to do all things in a household. At least when your sinificant other dies or leaves ya...you can still function. Not like alot of people I know that are helpless...Oh crap, how does this wash machine work or Jeepers, I never had to use the dishwasher, never used a weed eater, how do I write and mail this bill? You get the picture!!
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why does everyone think freedom means you have to sleep around???? i see freedom as freedom to be me instead of someone trying to turn me into what they want me to be in stead of waiting for what they realy want to come along!! i've been alone for 4yres and i'm not lonly!!! i'm not f***ing anyone!!!! i don't believe in wasting mine or anyone elses time (passing time with someone till the right one comes along) you only get one chance at this life make every bit of it count!!! yea go ahead and laugh you who live for the moment, there will come a day that you'll wish you'd lived your life differently!!!!!!!!
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becuase people are taught from childhood from the world that life is nothing with out love and it is EXCEPT you can love in many different ways doesn't have to be a romantic love. your not the one with the problem they are!LEAVE IT WITH THEM AND DON'T MAKE IT YOURS. my mother thinks i'm lonly because i'm not with any one but i'm not, i was lonly though when i was!!
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Agreed! I don't need someone elses baggage. I have enough of my own to start a friggin luggage company already. I have zero debt and don't need someone elses. Relationships are those periods of time in between people leaving you, anyway...
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i just got out of a relationshop, and everytime i was at his place i HATED sleeping next to him, his constant snoring, and i had to go home numerous times in the middle of the night because i was staring at the ceiling as he was spaced out asleep, must be nice, i am a horrible sleeper, but sleeping alone is the only way to go!
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There are more things I don't miss about being in a relationship than I do miss. I, too, absolutely love the total freedom. Used to believe 2 could live cheaper than 1 - not true anymore.
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I AM THE SAME WAY... TO BAD I FOUND OUT AFTER I GOT MARRIED... I AM NOW DIVORCED AND HAVE A SON
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OP!!!.....those ppl piss me off also. "What I would do if I were you", blah, blah, blah....well, you arent me so go piss up a rope !!!
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Being attached is way over-rated. The only value add to being attached is not sleeping alone (which ain't really all that bad), not eating alone, more occasional sex. Did I leave something out?
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sounds like almost everyone here is the same way, telling you to be f*** buddies with someone. Funny seems they missed the point.
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There is nothing wrong with being alone. I live alone and people are constantly asking when I'm getting married as though that could be my only goal at this point. I like living alone and sleeping alone. It works for me.
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What sex urge??? Did you not read the post???
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What a bore.
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