Don't worry about the kids, I'm sure they've been through it more than once.
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So you think you have to go down with the Titanic. Think again. You should leave but do what you can to save the children.
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It's a tough decision. If your a guy, then you'll have guilt ditching them kids with someone who "cant get their shit together"...and I hate to say this, but many women are "dependants", because that's the way they were raised. She may be "depedning" on you for support, in which case it will be up to you to teach and train her. (Sorry, to Raise someone elses full grown kid). If your a woman, then you may have the same guilt feelings ditching the kids, but it's your life and really, you have more options. You need to create an ultimatum...what you can and can't live with. You need to inform him of that.
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To the above comment, I am a female. I have given him the ultimatum and have tried to help him in so many ways in order to get his life in order. He is also ten years older than I am. I feel like he needs someone to take care of him which I would do if he took care of me in return. I also fear that if I leave him I may be alone forever. I have been in so many horrible relationships in the past and this one is probably the best one out of them all.
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Good luck! Just think of the opportunities waiting!
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LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE BUT ASK TO SEE THE CHILDREN-IF THE ANSWER IS NO- THEN SO BE IT. LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO ALWAYS TRY TO MAKE SOMEONE ELSE HAPPY INSTEAD OF YOURSELF
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