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i was molested my whole life till i left home at 15. now i call my husband of 22 yrs daddy...why?

i was molested my whole life till i left home at 15. now i call my husband of 22 yrs daddy...why?

 
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Ummmm, because he is the father of your children? I've called my wife "Mom"... If your hubby doesn't mind it then so what? A lot of married couples refer to each other that way. In some countried husband and wife refer to each other as their childs first name and then mother or father, i.e. SonyaMa. Meaning Sonya's Mother. My grandparents used to refer to each other as Daddy, Father, Momma and Mother. I never thought twice about it. So maybe your relating something to nothing.
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So what? Everyone's got something f***ed up from childhood that affects their romantic and sexual lives. You obviously need a guy who can hold you, cuddle you, make you feel safe, and be the 'daddy' who shoots a load inside. That's awesome!
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I call my wife of 26 years, Mom, and she calls me Dad. I think it's for the kids and nothing more. "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar." Sigmund Freud.
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^ Exactly!
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did you get some counceling?
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Counseling is good idea. At the very least, do some research on the effects of molestation and child sexual abuse. It profoundly affects you and your body.
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but we do not have any kids...i find denial to be much more effective...but thanks
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Does he holler out "Who's your daddy?" during sex?? Do you like it?
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It's ok, you want to be safe and matbe you are. You are just enjoying something. Enjoy and don't question. What made you start doing it?
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Reguardless? obviously someone had guard on the mind
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You LIKED it. You probably encouraged it. It's not a big deal....you obviously weren't damaged, so just enjoy the memories.
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It looks like the immature dumbass posters have really invaded this secret. Sexual abuse is a horribly destructive activity, and only victims and those clode to them understand how justified the treatment of sexual offenders in prisons is. OP, go to www.RAINN.org.
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It seems to be that the first sexual experience affects all others. We are imprinted beings. And you can't help biological responses.
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regaurdless of what you call him is realy of no importance but you realy should get some professional help, you may have buried issues underneath.
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because it turns you on go with it........
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because it turns you on go with it........
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sick
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Forget the daddy issue, let me have the guy in the picture.
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she said she didnt have kids...she has head problems duh!
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