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it takes years to trust someone and only seconds to shatter. I am only human, you were the one i thought i could trust. now i know, don't trust anyone.

it takes years to trust someone and only seconds to shatter. I am only human, you were the one i thought i could trust. now i know, don't trust anyone.

 
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It's people like you that feel "Trust" is an "ON-OFF" switch. It's either 100% or nothing at all. You think if you can't trust for one thing, you can't trust for anything. See, that's nothing but a way to control the people around you. It's nice when you don't trust anyone, then you have people who love you trying their best to fix the trust and wanting to do anything for you to trust them. Your friends, your parents, your spouse. It's really one of the best control tools. Learn diplomacy, learn that life has "grey" matter and it's not all black and white. Learn that you can never trust anyone 100% and live with it, deal with it.
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you are right, your heart is soooooooooooo big, that is why i don't want to lose you, no matter what the circumstances are. i want to be there for you too somehow, someway..
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when we are little, we trust without question until the world takes that away. Then we learn to let others earn our trust by doing what they say they will do and being who they say they are. Sometimes though, we feel like children again around a particular person, and we trust without question. tragic really.
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You are way too paranoid. Always accusing when nothing is going on. Get over yourself already!
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Don't trust anyone... I say that all the time in my bomb shelter.
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takes one to know one,,,"paranoid"
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You do not know the whole story Paulette.
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It is sad when everyone in your life hurts you in this way. I feel the same way as you op. I am very lonely :/
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Never trust anyone but your intuition.
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That's pretty bad if you can't trust your own parents.
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I know. But you live and you learn and you avoid those that have bitten you once. Sorry this happened to you. The feeling is devestating when you accept someone on the basis that they are the only ones that would never harm you.
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I told you not to vote for Obama.
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^4 unless you've been there DR. PHILL or are god and can see into anothers heart, you have no f n idea why someone doesn't trust!!! you sound like the one noone can trust!!! always turning things around and putting it on the one who did no wrong and had good reason not to trust you!!!!!!!!!!!
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Trust is like a broken glass,you can glue it togeother,but it is never as strong.
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