It's happened to me also and thousands of others also. You need to deal with it and cope and protect yourself. Go in as deep as you want, inch in, a little at a time. Your not going to loose your life or your faith...you will just get your feelings hurt if it doesn't work out. Don't have high expectations. If it is right it is and if it is not it is that also. Move on.
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Deep as you want... inch in... a little at a time... LOL!
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Me too. Just don't sabotage it because you expect the worst. Be up front with your 'other' about your feelings, emotions and actions. If they are worth your effort they will support you and understand.
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I will never understand this point of view, wouldn't you want to embrace and enjoy someone you are in love with. You should not push them away, why would you run from love? Let me guess, you are female....how did i know?
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It only ever leads to heartbreak and agony and the most awful pain ever. Back away from that and move on. Find a mate that is crazy about you but that you could walk away from. Then you wont have to deal with that pain.
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^I am starting to believe that. I don't want to be in a relationship that I don't care about. I don't want to look at my spouse and realize I can't pretend to be attracted to him anymore. Yes I would love to spread my wings and be open to a new relationship, but it's easier said than done. Some men can hurt you like you wouldn't believe.
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^Amen, sister
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