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You understand me and we have a mental connection but its hard to convince myself to be physically attracted to you. I don't want to hurt you so I'm leaving.

You understand me and we have a mental connection but its hard to convince myself to be physically attracted to you. I don't want to hurt you so I'm leaving.

 
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If you are not attracted, then you are doing this person a favor by leaving. Just do it in the kindest way that you can. DO NOT lie to them and tell them everything is ok, and them disappear. That will hurt them way worse that the truth!
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Have you read the secrets from people who let their love go for superficial reasons? You'll be back in however many years, posting how you still love and miss the one you let go.
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Beauty is only skin deep. Having a mental connection with a person who understands you is priceless. You are throwing away something that you will regret later. Think it through very carefully...
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just leave. He will be better off without you. he will eventually find what he wants and needs and maybe you will too.
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I feel really sad for you :( You don't love this eprson anyway..Conditional Love is what you will sow and reap
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^ Thats poon-tang....but your right. However I am one old ugly sucker and my wife is an Asian Beauty....so sometimes we get lucky....
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You all are wrong! If she doesn't have a physical attraction for him that's fine, but don't put her down because of it! It can't be helped, besides if she forced herself to do it she might throw up on him and really ruin things! It doesn't mean that he is ugly. It just means she doesn't like him like THAT, even though she may love him as a friend. Don't give up your friendship, just let him know that you don't like him quite in that way. It could change, or maybe not, but what's wrong with being friends?
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