I am sorry to hear about your brother deeply. I have been in a situation where being molested was a a family seceret however many did what they did for the longest time. When I was a little girl I thought thats what it was supposed to be. I will probley be called names and people will talk down on me but needless to say this is the first time in 29 years I will stir out and say I did the same to my brother when I was 8 1/2yrs old.After that happend I felt so sick and didn't know why. I did ask him to forgive me I thought thats the way our family showed love. My heart was filled with gilt and sarrow that an 8 1/2 year old I was could become a monster.It never happend to anyone just him from that moment on I knew really what happend.
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This is pretty generous of you, but what about the next one he does it to without a reason, he needs help.
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I wonder if the 10 other kids that they molested will feel the same way??? Oh, and I am sure your molester feels just a whole lot better now that they have been absolved. Thank you for that.
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This person is not responsible for what the molester does so just get off that BS. They found forgiveness for themselves so that they could heal and they owe it to themselves to do that. That being said, one can forgive and still obtain justice so stop making assumptions.
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You are a bigger person than I could ever be. I understand the forgiveness and how it's helping you but I could never do it. I know it wasn't my fault and that got me through it. I don't know why my molester did what he did and honestly I don't care. He was an adult with children of his own, he knew it was wrong and did it anyway. Being molested doesn't make a molster, I don't molest my kids. So I don't buy that excuse.I applaud you for making this work for you and bringing you peace that you truly deserve, but I for me it wouldn't work
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You sick f**k!! I liked it?!!! No it was my brother and he was young also. He wasn't an adult doing it. He was confused himself.
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please get help for you and your brother
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I don't need help. I am healed. My brother died 3 yrs ago. My mental health is in great form.
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I'm so happy to finally see a post where tragidy actually ended in forgiveness. An awesome testimony of truly letting the past go. Good for you and God bless : )
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