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I have stayed with a man that continues to cheat on and degrade me.

I have stayed with a man that continues to cheat on and degrade me.

 
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why?
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U allow it!!! help is free these days. just ask for it! dont waste any more of ur life...
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You are to young, and to beautiful to waste your time.You can find a man that won't cheat on you. Maybe something in your past makes you look for men like this?And, you aren't going to (change) him.
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Because you like your bills paid? Even married women can be whores. Try not to be. Go live your life. Find happiness that doesn't include a man. Find yourself.
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Does he call you a "fat ass"?
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Does He make you come? That is all that matters .
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You need help...look deep inside yourself and find the strength to leave! If you stay with someone who has no respect for you, then you send them a clear message to keep right on doing it! Love and value yourself, tell yourself everyday that you are a good person and you matter. Before long you will find a man who will COMMUNICATE, be respectful, honest, and loving. They are out there, but you have to portray the right attitude and confidence to attract them...good luck to you!
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A lesson learned is a Priceless Gain,if we can only take the Pain::
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^Very poetic and well said:)
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^HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
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Hit me up babe. I'll treat you right.
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I know women like you...I have no sympathy anymore. Deal with it or leave him...Quit whinning.
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Who's fault is it? His for doing it, or you for staying? I know that kind of change is scary no matter how long you've been with someone, but it's really worth it.
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Some women prefer that type of treatment. But if you are there and you don't want to be or you question why you are doing what you are doing then one of the best ways is to use a problem solving technique by making two columns on a sheet of paper. In one column list all the positive thoughts you have about why you are there. You don't have to think about it, just write whatever comes to mind little stuff, big stuff, just write anything and whatever comes to your mind. In the second column, do the same and list all of the negative things, any and all..now starting with the number 1, choose the least significant item, can be positive or negative and put the number 1 next to it, then do #2...same next significant, then 3 and so on until all entries on both negative and positive side has a number assigned to it. Now add up all the numbers for the positive side and divide by the number of entries in the list. Do the same for the negative side. Now you will have a number that signifies the weight of the positive or negative reasons and a brainstorm list of reasons as to that relationship. Who knows, maybe positive will outweigh negative and you may need to do some soul searching...or it will help you realize that you really do not belong there and how you are going to execute the journey out.
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It's really not always as simple as Leave. Especially when you have become depenant on this person. I suggest getting yourself ytogether while your still with him as soon as you get the funds Leave. Staying is usually a money issue...I know, It's mine. Good Luck
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He just needed some change he could believe in.
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She's probably a fat cow that can't get anyone else.
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You deserve what you tolerate. Stop tolerating it and know you deserve better.
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Because he has made you feel like you can't do any better and that you need him, right? Because he has belittled you until you became emotionally dependent on him? One day you'll decide you've had enough and you'll put your foot down, and it will tear you up, but you'll be okay. Strangely you will miss him terribly and you may hook back up with him once in a while but one day you'll see that you're better off alone or you will find someone who can treat you 1000 times better and good luck not effing up that relationship with the damage this guy has done to you. So, that's my story, hope it helps. P.S. Isn't it funny how people think we post pictures of ourselves on these things?!
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^ I'm personally glad that you don't! Especially after eating breakfast.
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the things you women put up with just for a handsome man. there are plenty of guys out there that have more respect for women. I promise. (zane)
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^ yeah, we're crazy like that, or we're just plain old crazy. :) Thanks.
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