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I cheat on my husband everyday in my head, 
 Im in love with my ex boyfriend 
 but I dont want to carry the guilt of taking my son away from his father .im lost

I cheat on my husband everyday in my head, Im in love with my ex boyfriend but I dont want to carry the guilt of taking my son away from his father .im lost

 
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It's only a matter of time until you cheat for real.Are all women whores?
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Talk to your husband about your needs. Maybe you can both work out something with swinging and compromise. Who knows, maybe it will add a new fire to your marriage?
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I have a feeling the husband would be the one taking the son away from YOU!
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Why does everyone stay "because of the children"? It will only serve to mess up your son's idea of what husband and wife are supposed to be. If you are distant and angry with each other your son will never learn to be in a healthy relationship.
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You have to do whatever is right in your mind. Its a tough situation. Other commenters made some good points. I just like the photo
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Im not a whore , I just feel like there is something missing in my life . I've only ever had sex with my husband , I love him . But I cant stop thinking about this other guy , I feel bad about it . Hes always on my mind .
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^^You sound like you need to go on a vacation with your hubby and try some fantasy role playing.
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I think all women should walk around with nothing but little heart stickers on their nipples. Or, at least the hot women anyway.
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go with ex boyfriend...you'll reget it if you don't
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You have to seriously ask yourself what you mean by "love". Think about who you truly want to spend your time with. Whom do you *need*? So many people settle for comfort and what they know, rather than risk being alone. Better to be true to yourself. If you leave, and you and your husband are mature about things, your son will be fine.
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huh, il be darned , we are in exactly the same boat, i thought everything was fine in our lives and relationship,married 22 years, aperantly though she never got over a guy she lost 25 years ago, so they lied to us for a few months setting it up, and then they both went away on a business trip , met in a motel , and i went from happily in love, to praying i dont wake up every night when i go to bed. try laying next to someone you love every night knowing they love someone else. its devistating, dont do this to your husband , the pain is beyind describing. if your truly in love , you wont inflict this kind of pain on him.
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^ Proof men do have feelings. -or at least 1 does.
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^^ thank you. I am not the original poster, but this helps keep me on track, because I DO love my man and I DO NOT want to hurt him and I realize my thinking lately has been very selfish and wrong.
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You've never had sex with your ex-BF?!? What if you throw it all away for some dude that has a 3 inch pecker?Or, did he get all the way to 3rd base?
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No i never had sex with him but I have seen his penis ...its not completely about the sex its about the way he makes me feel when we are together .
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