Because you were able to go out and find happiness elsewhere. This person is miserable and jealous that you were able to do that. If they had really loved you, they would never have let you go in the first place. Now there is a third person in the equation who could end up very hurt if you are not careful. Do what your heart tells you, but be careful.
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We always want what we cannot have. Don't fall for it. :)
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stay happy
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I agree with what everyone else said. Please don't ruin what you have for what could be... that person had the chance.
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You think you understood what you thought I said...but what you didn't reallize is that what I said is not what I meant
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^ Well, when you aren't truthful and say something other than you are really feeling what do you expect to happen? Learn a lesson from this, and say what is in your heart. If someone tells you they love you, and you feel the same then just say it. If you are scared then just admit it. Even grown men get scared about their feelings sometimes.
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You may not have it all together but you together You
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Re above: can have it all
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Do Not...DO NOT....go back to him. That would be a big mistake. He cares nothing about how he is affecting you.
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He is obviously an idiot. Tho, a friend of mine even waited until she married before he professed his love for her (one month into her marriage, she leaves her betrothed)for him.Baby no. 2 on the way.You never know, but he is still an idiot.
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Because they don't want you unless someone else wants you...meaning that if you returned to this person...the main reason they would want to be with you is because they do not want someone else to be with you. Do not live your life with another human being like that. Be with someone that loves you and be with someone that can accept your love.
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For other posters - Do not assume this is a woman posting this secret. This happens to men also. Women are not saints by a long shot, they just think they are because the male society holds them up on a pedistal. They can be just as rotton to the core as any other human.
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Well I am a woman...and I posted this secret.
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That happened to me. I am a man. Actually, it's happened more than once. It's called the intimacy struggle, and it is a red flag of an unhealthy relationship.
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That happened to me many times.
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