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I am 20 and female, sex does not appeal to me at all.

I am 20 and female, sex does not appeal to me at all.

 
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Why not? I'm 25 male, good looking, and sex is the one thing that makes me feel alive. Girls like you make me wanna kill myself.
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^ He's nuts! You are allowed to feel anyway you like about sex or any other thing you feel or see in this life.
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I have no interest in it either and never have. My bf takes it quite personally unfortunately.
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When, or if you find the right man, he will knock your socks off. Or maybe when you find the right woman?
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become a nun or something
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give it some time. Don't fall into feeling pressured to do it or enjoy it. Some things are for some people, but all things are not for all people. be yourself and enjoy life. sex in general is way, way over-rated.
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This is not a hormonal problem, because I still masterbate, I just don't feel the need to have sex.This is OP
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Asexual-Lacking intrest in or desire for sex. If you're not interested in sex with men or women it's completely possible you're asexual. If you're completely fine with never engaging in sex, perhaps you should find a partner who accepts that.
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Sex is way over rated anyway
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OP - some people just don't enjoy being intimate with other people. If you are healthy, emotionally balanced, and happy, then don't worry about it! Just rub one out when you need to and save yourself the mess.
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20 yr marriage. Love my hubby but I hate sex. And I do feel bad for my hubby, but - I really loathe sex. I sometimes think I'd pay someone else to have sex with him. He's not bad looking, and not bad in bed. I'm just not interested in sex, with him or with anyone. There's more fun things to do with longer lasting results - being practical. Sex IS a chore at the end of a long day of other chores.
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^I think you might want to get help, otherwise he might leave you. In marriage sex is more than just a thing you do when your horny. It helps you two understand each other on a deeper level and feel more attached. If you don't believe me, just stop by a marriage counselor's or psychiatrist's office and ask.
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I love my GF for the person she is not for the sex. Why am I here??? I'm frustrated I'd rather be with her than to be alone.
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You people that have depressed sexual desire - THIS IS NOT NORMAL. It is a sign that something is wrong. It could be psychological, but more often than not it is a hormonal problem and CAN BE CORRECTED. You owe it to yourself and others to get it checked out.
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Is it possible that you are attracted to women and not men, and are afraid to consider it?
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Actually there are many people who fell this way. Google "Asexual". They might find people atttractive but have no desire to be sexual with them. It is fine and healthy and just another form of who people are.
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You are still very, very young. Remember, women reach their sexual prime in their 30s. I'm 47
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^... and it was mechanical when I was young; sucked during my 20-yr marriage; now it?s the best. Has a lot to do w/ur partner
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^... and emotional attachment. Good luck.
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I guarantee you it is a hormonal problem. If all your blood levels of hormones are correct, you would be trying to screw the doorknob. Seek medical intervention.
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Dont worry chick, I am in the same boat. My husband hates that I could careless if his dick fell off. I just dont want sex!
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^the poster above needs to seek the help! She acts as though it's not a big deal, but she is married!!!! OMG your poor poor hubby! Seriously if you don't get help and try to do it you are selfish, incredibly incredibly selfish!
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emotions r way better than the physical......im a male.....27 nyc
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I'm the first commenter. Is that really fair to someone if they are your boy friend. Sex, that's what men and women do together for a lot more than just procreation. How's that workin out for ya?
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I am a 58 y/o male and sex with you does does not appeal to me either.
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You are missing out! Do you mastrubate? Were you molested?
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sex sux, it can never replace money as
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^^^If I was 58, sex with her would especially be appealing to me...hell, sex at all would be appeling. To the poster: Perhaps it's the type of men you're with/without. It also could be from too much stress in your life (like the men you're with), or you're confused or uncertain about your sexuality (not just gender preference either). Psychiatrists often believe that women feel sex is a chore, so make yourself very relaxed and think about things that make you happy for a while. I'm sure eventually sex would come across your mind. When it does, explore and enjoy. BTW, I'm a man if anyone was curious. I just know alot about this stuff cuz I actually care about women.
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At least you're up front and honest about it and not like my wife who constantly plays the "bluffin' with my muffin'" games....
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Have u had sex yet?
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You are doing it wrong!!!
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the more nsa sex you have the more empty you become. The best sex you'll ever have is with the one who can't live without you.Only he willendeavor to discover your innermost desires. His goal is to please you,not himself.
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it could be a hormone imbalance
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I was like you when I was 22. There were a bunch of decent guys I should have done it with but I decided to wait for someone special. Last year I was rape by a guy who has HIV. Now I have it too I dont know what to do now.
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