Get some help now. Call a local AA group, or talk to your doctor. This can be managed, but not if you let it go. There will always be stress in life, and you need help with learning how to deal with it - and help with the disease.
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^ What they said. And get rid of the socalled girlfriend. You're too young to be in this condition. Make the decision to be different and you will be. Take control of your destiny.
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You are far too young to be plagued by such negativity. Lose the nagging girlfried, and find someone who wants to be supportive and helpful, who will except you for you. Talk to someone about your drinking and get a grip on it now while you are young. Things will get better, just try to be positive.
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lost horizons
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Ditch the Bitch. Who needs that? Whatever you do, don't marry her. It only gets worse
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First thing is to get rid of the nagging girlfriend. You aren't married and sure as hell don't want to be hooked up with THAT for the rest of your life. After that toss out all your bottles and never drink again. It's hard but at least you don't need booze to live so you really never have to touch it again!
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I hear you brother... just tanked my second marrage... I am drinking way too much... hell I'm drunk right now. My parents are alcoholics and all I can say is get some help... we're not supposed to be this way. Plenty of people make it through life with out drinking it away... I'm certain I'm missing a lot.
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Dump the girlfriend and dump the booze. They both cost money.
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I drink beer every day after work
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See ya under the table!
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GO TO CHURCH AND GIVE YOUR LIFE TO GOD! HE IS THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN HELP YOU!!! INSIDE AND OUT! I PROMISE HE WONT LET YOU DOWN!
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^ oh boy, another jesus freak...just what the OP does not need!
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Start smoking pot instead...
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Hang on to your sweet ass, cause if you're drinking your troubles away now at 21, what are you gonna do when you have a nagging WIFE, 3 kids, mortgage, car payments and a go nowhere suck ass job.
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GET RID OF THE GF! She can't be any good if she's already a nag!
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An alcoholic is not a person who drinks all the time, it is a person who blames all of their woes on everyone and everything else and cowardly escapes into alcohol. The problem isn't the bills, your girfriend, college or even your dad, the problem is that you are a weak and selfish human being. Everyone has responsibilities and difficult relationships but for most of us, sobriety and facing our problems is a given. Alcoholics care only about relieving their own pain and burden... nothing else. So even going to AA and getting sober will be a waste until you start to take responsibility for yourself and your life, stop blaming others for your problems.
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YOU, must take control of your life. Now. I'm the daughter of an alcoholic mother and decided I would be the one to break the cycle. You can too. You are drinking as an excuse. You are better than that. Best of luck.
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your mistaken i blame nothing on anyone else. i just see no way out of the hole i'm in though. im doing all that i can, literally, to resolve all of this.to anyone who says alcoholics are selfish people need to think for a moment. Alcoholics arnt selfish people--PEOPLE ARE SELFISH PEOPLE. and im guessing that the alcoholics you know my be selfish people but my father used every single dime he could make working 2 jobs to support his family. so I WILL DIE BEFORE I EVER CALL MY FATHER SELFISH because he is truly the furthest thing from it.weak and selfish human being, who the f*** do you think you are? i'm just appalled because if you were to ask friends/family that is the exact opposite of how they would describe me.
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Rid yourself of the 'girl friend.' If she really had your interest at heart she would be supportive, and not help to create problems. As for rent and bills . . . we all have them. Continue with school, and live within your means. It will get easier, crawl out of that darkness ~ sober! Show 'em!
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Working every day to support a family is a given. Sorry pal but no one gets brownie points for doing what WE ALL have to do in life. What makes you AND your dad weak and selfish is the fact that you run and escape to alcohol instead of dealing with whatever is troubling you. You yourself BLAMED your drinking on your bills, your girlfriend and college... yes YOU wrote those words. Again, EVERYONE has responsibilities and difficult relationships but strong, courageous, and caring, considerate people will look within at themselves as to why they are miserable and even get help if they need it. Not turn to alcohol and cause even MORE problems for themselves and people who love them. THAT is what makes you selfish and weak. You know I am right because if I wasn't it would not have touched a nerve with you. Get real and deal with your shit like a grown up.
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Trust me, put the booze money toward the bills, ditch the girl, concentrate on school and the rest will fall into place....I know I had to learn the hard way when I was in your place.
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