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My husband had affairs and confessed them in detail because I asked. I now fantasize about them when we are having sex...he has no clue.

My husband had affairs and confessed them in detail because I asked. I now fantasize about them when we are having sex...he has no clue.

 
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I have to agree with the above poster, it takes a special mentality and relationship to enter the lifestyle. It's not for everyone and everyone is not for it. But sharing sex and separating sexual activities between intimate and recreational can take a relationship to a whole new level of trust and honesty that most people could not imagine.
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sounds like its time for a menage' trois
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Yes but he is fantasizing about boning someone else with not such a fat ass
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This is gross.
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Sounds like it is time for therapy and some self esteem.
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IF this true, then if you want him to continue having the affairs, tell him about it, otherwise, don't say a word to him.
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and now it's time for you to go out and have some fun of your own!
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Did he tell you about the time at Pizza Slut, in the back room with your boss?
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Sounds to me that if the two of you communicate that you could start to have an amazing sex life. just think of the possibilities, three somes,swapping,maybe even gangbangs.
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Iam afraid that he will get more action thanme...I am a bit insecure! How do I get past that?!
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Our sexual feelings never actually fit in the box that other people tell us it's "supposed" to fit in. I think you took something most people would call negative , and turned it into something that works for you. No problem there.
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