That pain will be forgotten... now all the years of nurturing and love and worrying and illness and love and disappointment and love and pride and anger and love and resentment and sacrifice and love begins. Don't be so damn selfish and you'll find it all very rewarding when they're grown and able to be on their own.
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(op)i had a miscarriage in my second trimester...so that means no nurturing/love/worrying/illness/love/resentment/sacrifice/love for me. i haven't told my husband i don't want to try again, because it was too painful. i guess that does make me selfish in a sense
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You really should talk to your husband. Start taking vitamins eating super healthy and try again. Otherwise you will always feel that void.
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The OP does not say she miscarried, she just resents the sacrifice. Which probably means she is not mature enough to be a mother. But since she is, she needs to take the focus off herself and put it on her child. That's called being a PARENT!
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i am the op which i stated in the second post you dumb f***. unless you decide to count my DEAD baby as a living child i would stop assuming that i am a young immature person who resents being a parent because i am not. have you ever had to give birth to a dead baby? it is just as painful as a live birth, but without the reward in the end. i'm just not sure i can go through that again. try being a little less judgmental next time.....
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sorry for calling you a dumb f***, it just struck a raw nerve :(
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