ugh ignore the moron above this one, counseling yes, TRUST is another, dont give it all away but little by little let them know where the boundaries are and slowly move them further out, its sucks going through life not trusting anyone, specially someone who just wants to love you
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You need toget some counseling, this is YOUR problem not theirs.
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I actually feel a combination of the two above suggestions would be a good approach. You need to talk about your issues with a professional who is trained to help you work them out, but you also need to communicate directly with your significant other so you can open yourself to what they are trying to give you. Good luck and God bless!
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We should change the laws so that all our ex- boyfriends have to pay for our counseling! Why should we have to pay in every way?
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The one you're talking about REALLY cares about you. Don't do anything to push them away!
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It took me years to trust my husband. He is my ex now. I kept waiting for the other shoe to drop and it did. There is some good advice posted here. Get a counselor. Someone you can tell anything to and who is there just for you to work out your stuff. Live today. Be present in this beautiful day while you figure it all out. Being loved for real can be painful and scary after having nothing but an imitation all your life. Be patient with yourself.
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I am in the same situation, over time, I have learned that trust is a hard thing to learn to do. Each time I thought he was "out to get me" he proved me wrong, I now trust him more and more everyday. Let go and learn, you will feel soo much better about your relationship and won't be looking for what's gonna go wrong next.
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You can build a bridge to a relationship as long as the water is calm!!
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