I'm in the same situation. It's horrible really. Not knowing if they will wake up.
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This was my life, too. Then, one day, the inevitable finally did happen, and I was a widow. That was four years ago, and my biggest regret is that I stayed with him all those years. Years that I will never get back. I wonder now, that if by staying with him, I actually made it easier for him to further his addiction, and ultimately kill himself. That's a huge regret to have, and hell to live with. Get out now. You don't need that.
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This is the first commenter again. I am thinking seriously of getting out. It's been 5x in rehab in 3 years. It keeps getting worse and worse. Plus, we have a son. I know I make it easier. I don't want to live with that. It sucks.
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Its not an addiction thats killing her but health issues. Because of it she sometimes stops breathing when she sleeps. Her lips were starting to turn blue when something caused me to wake. Even the cat stays close when she sleeps and has been known to pounce hard on her chest if she stops breathing.
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For the addiction partners - walk away! - you will regret enabling that behavior,expecially you with the son. Kids learn by example, you will raise a son that does as his father did if you don't get out, then you can watch him kill himself slowly too. For the OP, there is technology that can warn you when breathing stops, talk to the right doctor and I hope this works out for you. - Nikodemus
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