You are the problem. If you left this guy for someone else in 2 years you would be detesting this new person as well. Determine why you feel this way and then act. Time for some soul searching.
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It is not fair to you or to him to stay in a marriage to not disappoint your parents. Although your parents might not understand at first they will come around. Be strong.
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You're spineless, weak and leading your husband thru a sham of a marriage. Until you act like and adult and be honest and step up, you deserve to feel dirty and violated.
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Maybe this person was part of an arranged marriage... it still happens, even in America. Why are you criticizing her?
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I'm sorry that everyone is critcizing you. You've done nothing to deserve that, besides speak your true feelings. Would your parents want to see you stay in a marriage where you feel so repulsed and violated? He still "loves" you. So what? There are two people in this marriage, and your opinion carries just as much weight as his does. What exactly are you afraid of? That people just might think that you are not a nice person? Let it go, hon. Most people aren't really paying attention anyway. Do what's right for you.
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I wish it could be different for you because that feels like hell. I am living the same life and I cry durning sex I just dont want to fail my family but I am so unhappy. I dont eat,sleep,smile,and starting not to go out anymore. I am such a different person now . I just want to be happy and a loving person again.
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I know... it's the touch.There is more of a reason than you speak of. I wish you strength.
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Tell your parents that your husband only likes to fu_k you in the ass and it is painful.They will never bring the subject up with your husband and will fully help you get out of the marriage.
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I don't wanna be married to you anymore either.
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Daddy issues?
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how sad
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He has to be aware that you are only going through the motions. When he asks you what's wrong, be honest for once, that will lead to what is known as "communication". Comunication will lead to options which will lead to decisions that will improve your lives whether seperate or together.
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