But you can't, so STOP torturing yourself. You Have to remember Why you made this decision in the first place and Trust you made the right one. Don't Ever secondguess yourself. This will haunt you forever if you can't let it go.
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It will haunt you either way. Believe me I know.
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Then find and adopt a child...that would be the age of the child you lost...and raise that child as your own.
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im sorry . . . you can move forward. Trust in yourself and let go of the hurt. make it up to the world and yourself.
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I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better. Forgive yourself, everyone makes mistakes, do good things, try not to do things that make you feel bad about yourself and move on. The past is gone, the present is fleeting and the future is bearing down hard and will be the past before you understand anything.
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the worlds over crowded anyways.
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what the hell is a soal?
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hahaha soal. well my input is everyone on here is an ass. It sucks the mistakes we make, but we are either crippled by them or we are better for them. there is no atonement, just enlightment. learn.i am an ass also....here me roar
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I know just how you feel. I have been unable to forget my own doings of the same thing. And it was thirteen years ago. I think we will always feel horrible due to several different things. One people who are critical of it. And it feels like we can't tell anyone because they always have an opinion good or bad. I have helped some gals that were trying to make the choice as well. And I told them of the pain and suffering that I have gone through. Although I had a reason to do it due to medical reasons trust me it doesn't make it easier. Don't beat yourself up and ignore the stickers the press the news when they are discussing it. Just change the channel or close the page. We are only human.
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God loves you despite your hurt and pain and trust that your baby is in his hands. Keep your head up and don't let the hurt consume you. God is love **HUGS**
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Well if you don't feel like giving me a lifetime of devotion, I second that abortion..
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I think you should talk to a counseler. I have a friend who almost 10 years ago had an abortion and she went to see one 8 years after. She now said she wished she had gone sooner. It might help you come to some soft of peace with yourself.
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If you aren't capable of caring for a child you have no business having one, if you aren't trying to get pregnant you should take preventative measures which aren't always 100% accurate, if by chance you still happen to get pregnant abortion is a much more fair option than giving birth to a child that will not be properly taken care of. Don't feel so bad.
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You will pay the big price when you meet your maker.
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Abortion is wrong if it is not done for medical reasons.and the world may be oevrcrowded, but not the civilized world.
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You spelled soul wrong. And also, I believe it was for the best. If you couldn't care for it, it might as well have never been born.
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A God who would punish his children is not possible, People who believe in hell and eternal damnation are perverted. Any being that could be called or is God will not care about our frailties or our "sins". It just doesn't make sense and if it doesn't make sense it isn't true. OUr hell is right here on earth and then we die.
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I think you did a good job! Your saving the planet, now don't get knocked up again.
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I would never be able to make the decision you did, but I'm sure it was done for a reason... remember why and learn from what you've done... sometimes the hardest things we go through are the best decisons we make
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