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We were two married people who had an affair, why am I the one taking the brunt from both sides.  Why is the women to blame when the man initiated it?  Explain.

We were two married people who had an affair, why am I the one taking the brunt from both sides. Why is the women to blame when the man initiated it? Explain.

 
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Who was married longer and more kids, the women, 25 years..and it is a long time to be married to the same person. The affair was a relationship from the past and is now once again in the past. Sadness all around to loose something so special with a marriage and a friendship.
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In the outcome of all this, he is the one who told my husband and then turned it against me with his family. When all along he got what he wanted and I was stupid to believe him. Why does a man tell a womens husband he slept with her. WHY??
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Hardley a whore...just caught up with a player only looking out for himself. No consideration for you or his wife or the husband. That is a man for you..they take what they want and lie thier ass off to cover thier own.
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Females represent the important part of the procreational partnership. Males contribute millions of sperm on a minute-by-minute schedule that can be delivered at any given time. The female, on the other hand delivers one "egg" to the equation on a monthly basis. One male can service hundreds, even thousands on females while one female can only contribute one offspring in a year (or so). I'd say that is the basis for the greater guilt syndrome that our socalled civilized society places on the female of our species. With modernity has come the ability for both sexes to "play" but the primary biological command is still the same through eons of evolution. Sex is for species propagation not fun. The fun part was/is a way to encourage/ensure propagation (in less than sentient animals). Think about it, if there were no orgasm would you be interested in sex?
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Whine,whine. Do not do the crime if you are not prepared for what happens if you are caught. Your spouse is the victim, not you. You must be young. You are awful but still looking for pity.
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cause your a whore
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who was married longer, had more kids?
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because Eve was the one held resposible for the fall of mankind..
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because men are the gas, and women the breaks. you were suppose to put a stop to it...duh
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HURT and more Hurt all around ! LUST = HURT
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Because WOMEN CONTROL THE PUSSY...If he took it AGAINST YOUR WILL then YOU GOT RAPED. IF YOU GIVE IT UP FREELY, YOUR JUST A HOMEWRECKING CUNT.
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because when it comes to sex their is always a double standard between man and women. Men needs lots of women to validate them and women are suppose to feel validated by one man.
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answer to your question: Because it makes the man feel superior to the husband. we are their "property".. And when one man "conquers" another man's territory, they feel superior. They "won". But, in reality everyone loses..
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Read people. She's asking why she's taking the brunt from both sides. She understands she wronged her husband, but her question(and mine a little)is why is it when a man cheats on his girl, his girl gets pissed at the other female? Men aren't the gas and women aren't the brakes. No matter who the aggressor was each of the hurt parties need to be upset at their own partner and realize that their partners were selfish. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone. Name-calling is childish people, but since that seems to be the expected behavior, everyone who called her a skeez, whore, cunt or anything else derogatory is a self-righteous, hypocritical, piece of shit.
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"In pari delicto". Look it up.
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bulls--t its only name calling if its not true. if it walks like a duck , quacks like a duck , we dont call it a chicken!!!!!!!
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keys and locks, men are keys, women are locks. a key that opens lots of locks is great, a "master key". a lock that can be opened by many keys is a pretty crappy lock. just the way it is and society puts the woman in the moralistic role, guys will f*** anything so society expects it
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