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Why does my husband prefer to jerk himself off and not get me off. I have needs too and I shouldnt have to beg. I've been aggressive he just pushes me away.

Why does my husband prefer to jerk himself off and not get me off. I have needs too and I shouldnt have to beg. I've been aggressive he just pushes me away.

 
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Get a boy friend...I mean, tell your hubby that if he is unwilling to have sex with you to your reasonable satisfaction then you will be tempted to find someone that can. It's not that you necessarilly want to find someone else, but he may leave you no cyhoice other than to masturbate yourself. Tell him that because you have informed him of his unwillingness, that your action cannot be considered "cheating".
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had a boyfriend that admitted he was just too damn lazy to have sex. j/o was quicker and took less effort. needless to say, he is now an x.
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Isn't this the same guy that had sex with a dude? Get a strapon...
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Reminds me of my wife....
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Why don't you ask him? How the hell would we know?
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um yeah either gay or cheating hello
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I don?t think you are being aggressive enough. You need to try some bend over boyfriend action!
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Maybe in his mind he is no longer worthy of your love
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ALL guys J/O, no matter how old they get. If he gets more pleasure from that than you, I suggest you do the same.
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I knew someone with the same problem, they ended up getting a divorce. He told her that he hadn't loved her for years and just stayed because it was easy
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Instead of being aggressive, be more available! Men are visual so show something like subtle glances at the three buttons that all men love! Almost seeing is a turn-on! If acceptable, tell him of some of your fantasies! Oral sex with no strings is also a winner!!!!!
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most of the time when you masturbate it is much better than anything he can do for you... but it won't solve your marital problems.
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He is gay or addicted to porn.He also could have been sexually abused as a child....dealing with his dirty need then repulsed.
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^ LMAO! He can pick the amount of goober-lube too!
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Ya know, I have the same problem as your husband, but I don't have to look at porn. I just don't know why. I think that's why my ex-wife cheated on me. I feel bad about it. My new love is awesomea and is much more aggressive which seems to help, but I still j/o as well.
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^^^^That's right.
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BE MORE PRETTY AND ALSO ^^^^^^^
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did you get very fat?
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