Why would you deny intimacy? You obviously have issues. Unfortunatley, your better half didn't realize it when you got married. What a shame to do this to another human being. Be honest and let your better half move on. You are so selfish to carry on in such a "fake" relationship! Its discusting!
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You're right they will be irreparable. You aren't giving her everything if you are denying her love or intimacy. Why do you hold back? Of all things, that is the utmost important! Love your wife in every way you can.
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If you are denying your attraction to men, get out now! Waiting until later only makes your situation more complex and it also makes it harder to be honest with her and with yourself. Coming out late in life like I did only makes it harder for both of you to find a life beyond each other. Take stock now, and decide if you really can spend the rest of your life denying yourself or if you will someday want to leave. If you think you can't make it all the way, bow out now.
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Move to San Fran!
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^^ My thoughts exactly. I always feel bad for the wife in situations like this. She walked down the aisle thinking she was making a lifelong commitment to someone who was committing himself to her as well. It is a rotten thing to do to another human being! I'm gay, and I would kill any man who did this to one of my female friends!!
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Why in the world did you get married? You are a selfish loser!
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