he's still your son. you've raised him for 14 years. he's yours. There are stepparents or adoptive parents all over the world, still - they're their kids. Leave your wife if you don't love her, but how have things been the past 14 years? That, alone, is a dumb reason to leave. But if there are other reasons, well, don't stay for the kid. He'd be better off seeing his parents Happy.
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You could always go on the "Maury" show... might make some money AND get a free DNA test!
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My father felt the same and threw it at me more than once as I grew older. He was never much of a father and I, to this day, wish it could have been different. The sad part is that in our twenties we could have been twins, and at 60, now that he's gone, people who knew him say I'm his spitting image. It was his loss, I'm a good and accomplished man with children I love and cherish... thanks to mom. Regardless of whether you are his natural father, you have the opportunity to positively affect a young man and leave a legacy of love and admiration that many men like my dad never did. Take it, be a great father and he will be a great son. And love her too, she let you be hius dad.
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And youve waited 14 years to want to check on this? Whats wrong, has he all the sudden started acting like an idiot and youre thinking this kid cant be mine? Lol. Thats what happens with teenagers. And why would you HAVE to leave your wife?
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There are some things we just don't need to know. but if you do, i'd wait till after he's grown, but PLEASE continue to be his father afterwards, even if you're not.
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Does it matter? After 14 years and you harbor these doubts? My husband had the same fears only he voiced them and our son was tested. 99.9% he was the father...I never trusted him again nor did I love him freely....I never was unfaithful...
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It doesn't matter. You need to know the truth for yourself. Be truthful to yourself. Deal with the reality of it. You don't have to leave, nothing has to change, but you have to resolve your doubt. That my friend is an emotional cancer. Deal with the truth.
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been there for 14 yrs, hes yours! it takes more than just dna to make a dad
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Take the test. You can even get them at Walgreens these days. You don't have to leave your wife. Decide that later. The boy will always be your son. But talk to a lawyer if you need confirmation.
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Dude, you totally waited too long! Fuck what the test says, he's officially your son by default. Don't test, don't do that to him, deal with it LATER. What's done is done.
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Who cares now, 14 yrs later. He is ur son, one way or another.
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