My dad didnt have to marry a woman who had a small daughter, but he did. I didnt have to choose him to walk me down the isle, but I did. Its a small thing that will mean so much to a man who didnt have to but always did.
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It's your choice and decision, make it!
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Then tell him, sorry ass dads should have no rights
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I feel the same way. My father's not a redneck, and he's not an awful man. He just has never been so supportive and he is a raging alcoholic. My stepfather supported all of my decisions indiscriminately, and I never felt more like part of the family as I do with his part of the family...
...and he and my mom divorced, and he's still there for me. There's something to be said about a man like that.
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Do it!!! What an honor for a man who raised someone elses child.
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Honor the man who helped raise a child not of his own blood.
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I had my biological father walk me down the first half of the aisle where we met my step-father & he walked me down the rest.
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Hell, I wanna just walk down the aisle. Lmao... Unfortunantly I dont see that in my future. Not with whom I want it to be, Enjoy your day. Dont let who walks you down take away from that. I like the using boith dads idea. Or else the you wont hurt your dads feelings anyways, he has none. Its YOUR day, do what you feel is right.
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I did this exact thing. My bio father was so upset, that he didn't come to the wedding. We havn't spoken since (3years) and I'm actually releived. It's a good way to get rid of a dead beat dad for good. I figure if he couldn't "show up" for the first 30 years of my life, he had no right to walk me down the aisle. Too many men want the "dad" label without doing a damn thing to earn it. Do what feels right to you, and good luck.
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It's your wedding so do what is in your heart. Awesome idea switching dads mid-aisle!
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^^ I never thought about doing something like that but its a really really good ideal. That way no ones feelings get hurt.
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i had both of my dad's walk me down the aile...that way i don't have to hear it from both ends....it turned out to be very nice...
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just skip that part all together.
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Your real father is the one who changed your diapers and was there for you. The sperm donor is not your real father! Follow your heart not what others are expecting you to do.
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if your real father never bothered to be with you when you really needed him,then you dont need to worry about hurting his feelings,because he has none,why should he accept the credit for your happiness?when your stepfather was there for you,
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i have a stepdaughter who is in this very situation,and at this moment is in love with someone who makes her very happy,i could only say that she must choose with her heart,if i am chosen to walk her down the isle it will be my absolute pleasure to do so,
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Being an adult sometimes requires hard decisions. Do the right thing.
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only a real man can be father or a daddy...the ones whos been there for u should be there for u on ur special day...its ur day..do wat u want...noone elses opinion matters...def not a good for nothing father..my daughter has one of those...and shes only 3...
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I let both my father and my step-father walk me down the aisle. My step-father gave me away...but do what makes you happy. its your day!!!
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do it! he has not earned the right!!!
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I wanted the same thing... my stepfather died in a car crash a month ago... I'm horrified.
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Then have your step father walk you down the aisle. Sounds like you bio dad is just a sperm donor. Your stepfather, a REAL dad.
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signify the walk, let the biological walk you to the step dad who then walks you to your groom. kinda like it did in life.
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My daughter had her step dad walk her down the Isle..She thought that he was the Only one that had the Right to. She loves him dearly and He loves her. It is YOUR Day, Do what YOU want to do.
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My stepdad walked me down the aisle, my dad didn't even show up to the wedding. My stepdad was there at every single important event in my life; proms, graduation, wedding...I haven't seen him a a few years since my mom and him divorced, but I still cry when I think of him, he was my daddy...and I miss him. But because of my mother, my heart is broken.
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YOUR WEDDING.... YOUR CHOICE! DO IT!
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Love the idea of one doing half, the other the last half. Or both. However, sounds like your stepdad deserves the honor.
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Im a stepdad, real dad is in prison, kids grew up without him, I have been in their life for 6 yrs. I get disrespected all the time. It makes me sad that I am the one there with them and I think they hate me because I am not the real dad, or blame me...
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I didn't even invite my dad...my wonderful Grandfather walked me down the isle. There is no law that states who can and cannot walk you, do what you want!
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Answer these questions quickly - Who was there when you needed a shoulder? - Who was there when you needed a leg up? - Who was there to say how proud he was of your accomplishments. - Who provided the daily love, support, and strength of character that you admire? - Who do you want to walk you down the aisle? (Thanks to Phoebe Bouffet)
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My father and I were the men in my niece's life. Dad walked her down the aisle and I performed the ceremony.
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My father didn't even come to my wedding, I had my husbands father walk me down the aisle, he's been more of a father to me in the last 6 years than my bio dad ever was.
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Do what your heart feels is right. I really wanted my step-dad (raised me since I was 1 yr old) to give me away, but he was in another state and couldn't travel. Instead I asked my Bio (felt obligated)
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It's your day, do what feels right in your heart.
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