kudos for getting out of that relationship. It has been 5 years, though. Try doing a volunteer job in your area by checking out volunteermatch or take a class at your local community college in something that has interested you. No need to keep that ghost of what was once a happy marriage haunting you this far out. You don't need to die alone. Husbands usually die before wives anyway, so even if you were still together it is likely he would kick the bucket before you.
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i feel bad for you...but you don't have to be miserable. make a choice to be happy and like the comment above says...find things to keep your mind occupied. you are a good person. its time to move forward.
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This post really touched home with me. Is this my ex? Im sorry for hurting you.
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We all get old but only as worn out as we allow ourselves to be. You need to get out and socialize, there is someone for everyone. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, you have a good life left, take it.
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Get over it! I assume that you are male by the picture. There are a lot of warm, caring, lonely single women out there. Five years of loneliness is enough. I was alone for ten years, I wish I had gotten over it sooner!
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You will only if you CHOOSE to!!!!
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Randy?!?
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Ouch. Old and bitter sucks.
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My Mom felt the same way, it was hard to watch her sink deeper but she kept her head up and began to heal. I know you can too! When you feel more 'yourself' you just might find someone better. My Mom did and he is awesome to her. She is happier now than she ever was in her 25 year marriage. Good luck!!
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you sound enbittered. GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE
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With that attitude, count on it.
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try having internet relationships. Many men do just because it turns them on.
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wouldn't the shoe in the mans back be her shoe in her ex husbands back.. why would this pic mean this is a guy.. I hate when people assume that they know what gender the person is.. Male or Female, you'll find someone maybe not today or tomorrow.. but you will, don't give up hope
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Right there with ya sister!
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Sorry to learn this happened to you. When I hear stories like yours, I sometimes wonder if the partner who'd been cheated upon would be better off if s/he'd never learned.... my ex cheated on me all the time and thought I didn't know... I knew... I just accepted it. I finally got out for other reasons.
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^Why do women "accept" what is unacceptable behavior? It isn't ok, and you shouldn't let the jerks think it is ok! To the poster, I'm sure he ended up alone too. He's working on fantasy, to make himself feel younger, but I doubt that she wanted that responsibility. There are a lot of whores out there as this website shows us. Marriage and relationships are not of this century unfortunately. I wish I was born some other time... when you could still believe in love.
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If you are aware enough to find and contribute to this site you are NOT old and worn out. Give yourself some credit - I am sure that you have an abundance to give to others and the capacity to enjoy life again. Believe in yourself - you'll find that you are not the only one.
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Time to get a new BF and move on lady....your nothing but vegtables in your own stew...it's time to climb out of the pot and stop feeling sorry for yourself and looking for misery.
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wwhhhaaaattttt
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please lady safe your bs - i bet u r a dirty cow
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