I feel the same way.
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Just be honest with your wife. Deep down...she knows.
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who knows maybe it's one of your wife's fantasies!? good luck!!!
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well,if you really like being with a man after youve tryed it,then your really going to have problems,sometimes one has to make a choice,ive been a closet gay for 30 years,this is the way it has to be for me,i wish id have come out a long time ago,,,,,
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There are many like you that are curious
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Feel truth, love your wife and tell her. Ultimately she feels it and will be happier in the long run. Besides, you are not responsible for her happiness. The more people come out, the more will realize this sooner, the less will get married on false beliefs. I personally find guy on guy hot and I'm a 34 year old woman who lives with her BF of 4 years.
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That's a tough one, dude. Hope you can work out your feelings.
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Leave it alone, man, its not worth it. I was in the same situation, and have been left so disappointed. The pleasure was not worth what i ultimately lost, i miss realness, which is hard to find in men
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I came out to my wife after 31 years of hiding... best decision ever? YES!
But, do talk to her about it before doing anything else. She may be okay with it, and may even want to help you explore this side of you. I agree with one of the replies above, that says you may be bi. You and your wife may come to a livable arrangement. At the very least, it's better if you both know the truth and can each face the future with honesty.
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I am/was in the same situation as you. Believe me go some place and do it. I have done it many times now. You can't describe the feelong of sucking your first cock. I swallowed right from the very first time. And as far as anal hurting. Just be relaxed and with a man that you can trust.
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"Mommy? Why does daddy like man butt?"
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Many men have these desires. Figure out what it is about a man that peaks your interest. Maybe your wife would be open to being more dominant, using toys, etc...whatever it is that you fantasize a man doing, see if she could fulfill those desires.
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^^^or a short cut... just let ole Fido join in;)
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Ok I want a fast car, a big boat, lots of land, ect... but those things aren't practical to my life. Some things are fantasy. Buy your wife a strap on if you think you could have fun with that, but don't go do that thing you think you want to do. If it is very important to you then get a divorce first. Your reaction to that last sentence should tell you where your heart is.
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It isn't worth it. you will have a moment of pleasure and a lifetime of guilt.
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Please consider what this will do to your child if she/he finds out via your wife who will no doubt start proceedings to divorce you after finding out the truth about you. You have choices in life but your child doesn't
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Stop fantasizing, you may like it, you may not like it. So act on it. Your wife may be OK with it. My wife has a woman lover and she loves me. I am monogamous with my wife. However, I love hearing about the time she spends with her woman.
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come now Dago.... you've been out of the closet for years!!
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Congratulations. You are gay. Or, at a minimum you are bi.
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your really gonna like it when that hard dick starts penetrating that virgin ass of yours,whew,,,its gonna hurt,the first time,,,,,
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so you want to play the rusty trombone your wife will figure it out when you park a limp beef bus in tuna town
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Sex is sex, and if you are married- then you should only be having sex with your partner (unless it is ok'd by the other party). If you want to explore men, well, then it is the same as cheating on her with a woman. Control your urges or get out for her sake. If you were my husband, I would want to know and I would want you to leave me if you felt that you HAD to do this. I see men and women everyday that I find appealing and would love to have them in my bed, but instead- I go home to my man and work that fantasy out with him. Good luck to you.
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^ Well said!
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