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At parties, I flirt with the ugliest, quietest men. What does this say about me?

At parties, I flirt with the ugliest, quietest men. What does this say about me?

 
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Low self-esteem and because likely of the attention you get without the fear of being rejected, you pick the 'ugliest' guys for the same reason lions pick the 'weakest' in a herd, easy prey.
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Maybe you like to give someone attention that ordinarily doesn't get it.
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From the picture you used, you seem to think of yourself as a manipulative user. Are you?
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You may make his year, but are good to save him the agony of trying to actually have a realtionship with you.
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you should probably put out once in a while too.
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It says that you are terribly insecure, and terribly egotisical at the same time. You may feel that you are not going to be terribly successful going after the more appealing, handsome men, and fearing rejection, you flirt with the ugliest, quietest men because you think you'll have a better chance of a positive response. You like the attention or response they give with their shy incredulity that this party goer has selected them to flirt with. On the other hand, you could also have an inflated ego and you enjoy that shy wishful manner that hopes, really hopes, that this girl is serious and "really into them" and the look they have, that they might stand a chance of feeling some normal social happiness for a bit, appeals to you, even if you plan to do nothing with it. You are kind of a spiritual vampire, arn't you? Sucking up the spirit and hope from these guys, and spitting it out when you leave? You don't say that of course, that the flirting doesn't come to fruition, but if it doesn't, then you are a sad and lonely cocktease, and nothing more.
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hey that was the hottie that was all up in my grill last night!! dang... I'm gonna put on clean shorts every night now!!!
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I hope you realize how disappointing and unattractive you are to other guys. Why don't you seek out someone you're attracted to? After three or four at most you should have no more problems. The only way to overcome your lack of confidence/insecurity is to confront it.
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You're attracted to serial killers.
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you're making excuses for your inability to attract good looking men where ever you go.
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Dago it says that you understand the league that you are in.
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whore!whore!whore!
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Hon, perhaps the "ugliest, quietest men" are only ugly to you, and quiet around you, because you're both shallow and boring. Yeah-- that's probably it.
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This secret really stands out with me. I fetch allot of drinks, including coffee, for pretty women. (at perties and in the office)
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It says that you are a mean b**** who likes to get guys hopes up and make them feel worse than they are already feeling. Good for you, you have a goal In life.
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Only you know your motives and whether they are good or bad.
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