I hear you. I'm guessing you're a woman...I dont' think men understand that anything they say during sex doesn't exactly count. It's like apologizing when someone has a gun to your head. The circumstance drives the behavior, so the behavior doesn't come across as heart felt. Guys, women want to hear compliments out of the blue, for no reason other than you were thinking about them!!
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So you want to be told your ugly, he says it to put yall in the mood. it's hard for a man to think like a woman. most men don't really think of stuff like that, telling a woman shes pretty just cause, hugging you for no reason, or waking you with a good morning kiss. just let him know you need more attention outside the bedroom !!!
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Maybe the only time your sexy is when your legs are spread, and ready to go. Does he say your sexy when your giving him a blowjob?
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My ex had this problem. She told me about it and I made sure to point out how beautiful she was in everyday situations. She was, and still is one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen in my life. And it still wasn't enough. Apparently you have to make sure once in a while during sex or just prior that you never say anything, because if you are too consistent they get the wrong idea.
Here's a concept for you women out there. Accept a man's compliments. I never told her anything to get her in the sack. We had sex frequently, sometimes four or five times a day, and I certainly never had to ask for it. So I wasn't telling her anything for any devious purpose.
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Look at it this way: If he didn't think you were sexy, he wouldn't have sex with you!
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Don't try to put the blame on him. This aint about him telling you that your sexy only during sex...this is about you having a problem with only hearing him say it during sex. Get out of the female "Blame Game" routine because if what he is saying at a particular time is a problem for you then you need to let him know it is a problem for you. Then he can make a decision to change his approach. He's not doing anything wrong, it's not him, it's you. Fix you by discussing it with him and give him the opportunity change or not. But don't you tell him he is doing something wrong.
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