Just for fun, this father's day give him the gift of a positive DNA test. Get a kit online and mail in your and dad's hair and saliva samples to get the results back in time for the holiday. Or if there is a 'Any Test Any Time' clinic in a local shopping center plan a day for lunch and blood tests. Bonding in modern times is a new road to travel.
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Don't bother with that! Why should you have to work to be closer to someone like that!? My father only recognizes his 2 male children, saying things like "My kids have never been without me." "My kids will always have what they need." "My kids will always know how much I love them." My sister and I were at the table one time looking at each other and trying not to cry. He left us at 3 days old. We never heard from him until we were 16. I am 32 now, and have only gotten 1 birthday card from him my whole life. Move on. Don't bother. You are an adult now, and you can choose your own family... your friends.
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he has taught you how NOT to be. don't give him the power to make you anything less to your kids.
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you know, why not come right out and free yourself by asking him why things are the way they are between you two. i'm not trying to be a dick but maybe he knows something that you don't. maybe you aren't his kid. good luck.
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^1 I wish!
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write this down,and send to him,it helps you heal,it did for me and remember there is someone who loves you
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Tell him how you feel using tact and sensibility. If he rejects this, at least you've tried. Accept yourself and heal. God Bless You.
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