30lbs?! You think that's EASY?
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I agree with you. It may seen shallow but overweight is not sexy or sensuous and a real turnoff for some of us, not to mention the health risks and problems. My wife and I had the same issue for years, she's still over weight but now she is trying to lose it and it's working, We're both happier, because it's also a self esteem issue. Good luck!
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No one ever said life was easy!
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Man that burger looks good!!
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It's all about a lifestyle change, and you can help. Even if you don't need to lose weight everyone can benefit from fresh air and exercise! Go for walks or bike rides together, or have sex instead of letting her raid the fridge. Just don't harp on the weight loss. If you keep mentioning it, you will get further away from both her and the goal because you will be raising her insecurity.
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^ Compliments work best, actually. If you make a girl think you like one thing about her, she'll try to make more.
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you would lose 30lbs for her... I f'n doubt it!
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i agree that the burger looks really tempting.
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Back off! He's not being a jerk- he said that he LOVES her and that he struggles with his feelings about her weight!!!
Maybe you could talk about the two of you doing some fun things together- like maybe you could both bike together on weekends, or take tennis together. Maybe you could fix a nice, light diner. And if it comes right to it, you don't have to talk about the weight being an issue, you can talk about her HEALTH and that you love her and you'd like to know that she's treating her body well. Sounds like you are a nice guy- hope this works out for you.
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That burger just made my mouth water.
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i think she should go for 40 and then dump you for a hotter guy.
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Cut her in half and have a three way.
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have a sammitch beeotch
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More bounce to the ounce
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30 pounds is hard to lose. It's hard to lose 5 pounds let alone 30!!! If you really love her then you'll find fun ways to go out and do things together like walking, riding bikes, swimming, playing whatever game that's physical. Set good examples by WANTING to eat salads and low fat meats so that she'll do the same. You can help her.. don't make her do it all by herself. I'm sure if you said you would lose 30 pounds for her then that means you could probably stand to lose 50!
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