They do that. Just walk. Though Im still trying to. Good luck. Try talking to a councelor maybe? They help point things out that make you mad enough to do it. You just have to stay mad. Thats my problem.
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oh and good luck.
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You need a support person or group; family, friends, whoever. Get out, you're not too weak, try to remember how it was before him. He is evil, there are lots of men like that, I know, I'm a man and I'm ashamed of them. It's their way of feeling superior by making women feel inferior. It stems from insecurity.
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^^^only if she already has a gun
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is his name adam? been there, done that, get out ASAP!
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His name is Rob, from Warren, OH. Found out this is a pattern for him. Talked to one of his exes (unfortunately too late for me) and she said it only took 4 months for him to break her down. She said she was very outgoing, very confident and during/after him she was very meek, timid, extremely low self-esteem, etc. It took over a year and a half before he broke me down. I didn't see it coming. I hate him.
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Yep there are people out there that do it. I'm another victim, still trying to find all the pieces. He would even pretend we hadn't been out to the store,and look at me like I was crazy when I would look for something I just bought. He gave these things to his other gfs. Luckily it wasn't me he got pregnant with triplets... it was a sixteen year old. I feel sorry for her and the babies.
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do you really think that???? Luv, I don't think so... You NEVER let someone do that to you. I beleive that you can kick him in the ass and go on your way. So sorry for his lame ass that he will lose someone, who loves him so much that she feels f***ed up like you.Get up tomorrow and start a f***in brand new day....without him. YOU CAN MAKE IT.. no matter what the dumb f***s above say..
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Hey I was with my exhusband who was like that for 7 years. IT TOOK ME THREE YEARS after I left him to feel good again, but NOW I DO! And it was worth the wait! So just leave, bite the bullet! And it will suck really bad and it hurts and you feel terrible, but only for awhile. Just keep telling yourself over and over and over "I will be better", even if you dont believe it. He brainwashed you into feeling bad, you have to brainwash yourself back out of it. I posted birthday/christmas cards from friends and family, and notes with nice things people had written to me all over my bedroom wall so I could look at it every day when I woke up and remember that there are people who love me and think I'm great. Last night I was looking at them and realized that I dont need to look at them anymore. I just feel pretty good most of the time. You can do it. JUST LEAVE. EVEN IF IT MEANS SLEEPING ON SOMEONE ELSE'S COUCH. I lost every penny I had. I lost my car. Pray about it. God will look after you. Whenever things got really crazy he was always there providing the next step.
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