What did they do that was so bad you want to disown them?
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Those of us that can think can't help but wonder if it was YOUR expectations that drove them to be rebellious/substandard/etc. Maybe if you'd actually loved them, they would've excelled. Fortunately, some of us excelled IN SPITE of our parents' harsh judgments, but it certainly would've been more fulfilling if our parents had truly loved us, instead of using us to vicariously fulfill their own selfish needs.
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That's some awesome parenting. Regret the entire lives of your children because they aren't up to your expectations. Maybe they don't want to be a miserable f*** like you, that ever cross your mind?
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Ha! Maybe they think the same thing about your parenting. What a f***in' let down. ~Disturbed
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Is this Kris Jenner by any chance?
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^lol. The Dash girls can support themselves anyway. I am of the opinion that the secret holder had her first 3 too young but learned from her mistakes in raising them to do a better job on the later offspring. If the first 3 are still living, don't give up hope yet.
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I agree with 7 up. Poor kids. Had no choice to have you as a parent. Wow not only did you mess up one kid but 3 of them!!!! Bad Bad Parent!!! Your probably a cold hearted b**** and they never felt loved!!!!
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Wow that is a sad thing to say. Dont regret having them just regret how they have turned out. We dont always get what we want and they might not be perfect but death is worse. I burried one of my children 2 summers ago. Dont wish death or even never being born.
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=== ever concider water boarding?
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I wish I never had a mom. She did me a disservice by having me. Mother's Day is the worst day of the year. I can't wait till she's gone. Her death will be the final confirmation of what I've felt for years.
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what about the younger one?
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Anyone that puts this person down, has never had children that are troubled or have mental issues.
I think that there are times in a lot of parents lives that they secretly wish that they had not had children.
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Three up, you're an ass. You have no clue how she raised them. Not every thug or gangsta was raised by a mother who made them that way. Ever heard of FREE WILL? Heartbroken mothers exist on every block. Have some compassion and stop generalizing or "assuming facts not in evidence."
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You just didn't raise them right. Don't blame them, blame you!
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Now you must kill them.
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I hope they feel the same way about you.
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Motherhood is not for everyone. Those of you calling this woman names, I'll bet many of you also stigmatize women who choose to be childfree.
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is that you Mom?
well... you aint been no bed of roses your self you selfish b****. We hear you getting drunk and fighting with dad every night...
yeah your a real piece of work.
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You're entitled to your own feelings. I hope, for the sake of your children, that you don't share them! I grew up hearing my mother say, REPEATEDLY, that she wish we (her children) were never born. I never got over it.
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WHO raised them???????
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You do the best you can with what you have. Children are are product of their parents. If they are into drugs? Too bad. If they are assholes? Too bad. They are your children, and it is YOUR job to love them. I sure hope you dont tell them what you think. What a peice of work you are. Have your inner feelings, dont pass them on to the kids. They will be emotionally f***ed up for life.
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f*** you mom
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just because they don't own up to your standards and beliefs doesn't mean there bad! Its mothers like you that make motherhood bad! If you ask me, you don't deserve them. Close your legs next time. THE APPLE DOESN'T FALL FAR FROM THE TREE!
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I agree with you OP. I have two that I have disowned because of loyalty issues. I hope yours are out of the house and gone.
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I understand the OP's feelings, being in a similar situation. Just get them out of the house and put your sanity first.
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OP and ^^^^
A real mother never disowns her children. Children become what they are taught. It may not have been you but you could have helped. DENIAL.
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this is the most honest thing i've read on this sad website.
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Maybe they turned to crime or drugs in their lives and the mom can't handle it. I have two sons 8 & 11 and it's scary out there. I don't know. I have no opinion because I don't know how my kids will turn out. I try my best to raise them.
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I have to say that I raised mydaughter with love and discipline, and a lot of support. She is currently in trouble with the law and will be under house arrest soon. I could never disown her and say I regret having her. I still love her and always will. She just needs to find her direction in life. I will be by her side along with her father. Right now she needs to know that she has our love and support.
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MOM IS THAT YOU.
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It's parenting you idiot!
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When I was a kid, I was a loser too, and I put my family through a lot of bullshit. I graduated from the state U. at 36, and ment to grad school (MBA) at 47, and I live well now, and I can be there for my siblings. Hopefully, your kids will snap out of it too. G-d bless.
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