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I tell her I love her every night, and she tells me how she'd die without me. I don't mean a word. How do I tell her I don't love her anymore?

I tell her I love her every night, and she tells me how she'd die without me. I don't mean a word. How do I tell her I don't love her anymore?

 
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This depends a lot on what your relationship to her is. Are you married? Living together? Do you have your own home and just visit her? If you are in a committed relationship, you should seek professional help. If the relationship is basically good, except for the fact that you no longer feel love for her, then perhaps you owe it to yourself to get some professional help, otherwise you will end up feeling the same way with the next woman you find in your life. You owe it to her, but mostly you owe it to yourself.
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Stop telling her you love her. She ll get the clue soon enough. Then when she asks you if you love her, tell her your just not feeling it and havent felt it for some time. Its best she knows the truth. It will hurt but the truth always does. For her to tell you that she would die without you, dont fall for that manipulation. For her to even say that makes me think she knows deep inside that you dont really love her. She sounds very insecure.
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Some people here are so crude. Just quit telling her you love her....better yet, tell her you don't love her anymore, unless you have kids. If you have kids, suck it up, find help, and make it work. Kids shouldn't have to be punished just because their parents "fell out of love".
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Grow the f*** up and learn that finding someone who actually wants to be around you and can stand your face everyday is rare and that when you look for reasons to dislike them then youll find them.
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It depends. Are you married? If so, you suck it up, remember what made you love her in the first place, and try to find that again.
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I'm so there.
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You say, "I don't love you anymore". Duh.
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Stop believing you were brought onto this planet to make this one person happy. you weren't. make yourself happy and Stop pretending. hopefully you both can move on to find those who will love you back the way you both deserve. What if "the one" for you is waiting right around the corner and you miss out because you decided to settle for less than you want? how sad.
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Don't tell her just off yourself you fing bastard
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BE HONEST AND SIT DOWN AND TALK TO HER.MAYBE SHE IS FEELING THE SAME WAY.
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