Go get him!!!
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You know, it never feels as good as you think it's going to feel. Sure, you have all the power now, but before long, you will start to feel sad. I was elated for six months after I found out and told my husband of 25 years to leave. Six months later, I was still glad the marriage was over, but I wasn't waking on air like I was initially.
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Record it with a hidden camera, spread all the evidence on the bed for him to find while you are in the next room. And if you have real proof, don't listen to his begging, pleading, and lies. How many times did he cheat and not get caught? Thats what I would want to know.
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Good luck! My cheating bastard of a husband didn't say a damn word when I confronted him. He clammed up. He knew I was going to lay into him, so when he got home, he announced that we were going out to dinner. He thought that we wouldn't discuss his infidelity. I brought it up. I don't care if I cry in a dark restaurant... he deserves the embarrasment too. Asshole. You should record it & put it on youtube. I would love to see you get a reaction... I got not much of a reaction or answers. I can live through you!
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Maybe he was unhappy in the marriage..and just didnt know how to leave. Happens
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I have to agree with the one person who said..what if he say ok and leaves? Are you ready for that outcome. I think your possibly thinking of using guilt to keep him close or to manipulate him into doing whatever you want him to do, be it leave or stay. This is a trap of your ego...stear clear of this vengance, and just forgive him he is human. Forgiveness is the only way YOU will be happy.
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I'm the OP.I told my husband I knew. At first he tried to pretend I have an over-active imagination ... until he watched me lay out the evidence.What could he do but confess?! He wants to go to counseling, I doubt seriously that will happen.I could never trust him again. He is moving out as soon as he finds another place; the economy is good here, hard to find something at the drop of a hat. For now, he's sleeping in the spare bedroom.
I still love him, but how can anyone be happy if they can't trust their spouse? I don't want to live like that. I don't think I could ever get that back.I wasn't out for some kind of "sweet revenge", I just can't stand being deceived. Why can't Men and Women just get married, be faithful and honest...or ask for a divorce. I am truly convinced it's really not about the sex...it's about the sneaking around and having a secret. Oh well, live and learn. It will be a long time before I will trust again. ARE THERE ANY HONEST MEN OUT THERE?
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Go get him,post it for all to see!Cmon,the guy is obviously not be taken care of home,cheating is a cry for help!You do your have of the contract and you wouldnt have to find him happier in the arms of another!
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Above post: Why don't YOU learn to spell before you criticize someone. Besides, there is no reason for cheating. If you aren't happy with something at home, then talk or get help. You don't go screwing someone else. This only causes more problems, more pain. Where are YOUR morals?...oh wait, you sound pretty uneducated, maybe you just don't have any. You are probably a cheater, too. The only people who condone (means to overlook) it, are the ones who are either doing it, or have done it. YOU need to get a life. I feel very sorry for your wife/girlfriend, if you have either..or maybe you have both, moron (a person who is notably stupid or lacking in good judgment). Grow up. (I thought you might need some help with definitions here)
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