Love will find a way - get help, do some couples therapy before you make any decision to leave. My wife and I went through similar and have worked it out. Life with her is far better than life without her. Good luck!
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My husband and I are together because of my son. It's sad isn't it? Good luck to you
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See a counselor. You may be together now simply for the children, but if you both married before you had kids, you can at least try to meet on whatever common ground you once had.
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Marriage is not an instant guarantee for lifelong happiness. Most couples don't understand that going into a marriage or even a relationship. It takes work to make it work. Do you just plant seeds in a garden and leave them alone and expect delicious produce at the end of the season? No, you plant the seed, water it, give it nutrients, nurture it in other words to help it become good. If bugs or disease attack it, you call a doctor or expert and try to figure out what is wrong and YOU fix it. Sometimes it can be something YOU alone can fix, but you need to discuss it with someone besides yourself. Talk to your husband, talk some more, talk even more. Write things out and talk about issues that you have written out both GOOD and bad. I see so many people in what I believe to be wonderful relationships just get tired and lazy and give up. That isn't what our ancestors did. They were not allowed to divorce every 5 years or so and get a new spouse. They had to live it for better or worse, and most seemed to live it for the better...you can too. Just believe in yourself and him and remember why you got married in the first place. Talk to your spouse, get some help, your spouse may be having the same types of thoughts but may love you enough to still stay.
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for the person who said "stupid winer". You are a prick. Where is your secret so i can call you a little pussy or a queer. Get that shit out of here. Who is stupid now?? You spelled "winer" wrong it is WHINER! look it up dildo!
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I feel the same way. :( I somehow feel glad I am not alone. Thank you.
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