Life is too short...open your arms and let this person go.
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I was with a guy who was so addicted to msturbating that I finally left him after 2 long lonly sad years. I thought something was wrong with me. But his gf before me went thru the same thing. It doesnt get better. You need to be strong and leave. My counselor says its a worst addition than alcohol and it would take years of couseling to even get to the depth of the problem cause it probably started when he was in his teens. Sex is all around us, so it is hard for them to stop and most of them dont think anything is wrong with them.
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Have you told the other person how you feel? If so, and they have done nothing, you must leave. It's not the act of sex that you need, it's the intimacy and openness that it brings. Going without that is like going without talking or laughing for 4 years...it's not enough!
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I would leave. Sex is vital to a healthy relationship.
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Why are you with this person if he isn't fulfilling your needs? Is it because of convenience? You should make a plan to move on, sex isn't everything but it is a big part of a healthy relationship. Life really is too short.
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I went thru this very thing except I was with my b/f for 10 years...the last 6 six years was no sex, the two years before that was only 3 times total. But he would look at naked women on the internet but when I saw a credit card bill where he subcribed to internet porn that was it...i'm thinking I am here for free and he wants to pay to look??? He knew I was willing to try things, I was always ready, but he prefered something else. I also thought it was me... but The man I'm with now adores me, loves touching me, and we enjoy a very very good sex life.
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As the poster I just want to say f*** you to all you assholes that assume that I am the reason he doesn't want to have sex. People see something like this and automatically assume I'm some dirty fatass, but I'm not. We do have sexual relations, just not intercourse. The reason I stay with him is because I love him with all my heart and I couldn't even imagine being with anyone else. If I have to wait for sex then I can wait. It isn't everything you know. I just get a little frustrated sometimes and I thought this would be a good release. Guess I was wrong.
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I've got a friend that loves his wife to death, and has never cheated on her but has no craving for sex
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this is for all you dumb,ignorent people out there, who think that a relationship has to be based on sex,or else your gay,and if your partner does not want to have sex with the other that you shoul leave,it sound to me like all you idiots are so blind,your heads are so far up your asses that you will never know what is like to love someone unconditionaly. its sad that there's so many shallow,uneducated people out there in this world....GROW UP PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!
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I don't understand a guy like that. I wish my wife were like you. But she prefers to sleep alone, downstairs. I, too, cannot think of being with anyone else, but I crave the intimacy I am not getting.
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My ex husband was the same way. Leave his ass! You deserve better! A normal man will not want to take his hands off you, and you'll see that as soon as you find someone else.
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I have a friend who is in a similar situation - however he has a fatal mental illness - I have a hard time excepting that. Sex is important - either make him stop or leave him!
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Are you kidding me? f*** that! You're there for the taking and he'd rather jack-off?! Leave already. ~Disturbed
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What's holding you from leaving him? I'ts not too late. Get up and live your life.
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Screw you, poster up 2 from here. You dont even know what your talking about. With these selfish beat off assholes it doesnt matter to them if your a goddess! Its all about them! You dont even get it!!!!
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As the poster I just want to say f*** you to all you assholes that assume that I am the reason he doesn't want to have sex. People see something like this and automatically assume I'm some dirty fatass, but I'm not. We do have sexual relations, just not intercourse. The reason I stay with him is because I love him with all my heart and I couldn't even imagine being with anyone else. If I have to wait for sex then I can wait. It isn't everything you know. I just get a little frustrated sometimes and I thought this would be a good release. Guess I was wrong.
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Is that you again, Jen?
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My wife and I have not had sex in over 5 yrs. I wanted it often but she always had an excuse so I finally gave up. I've had it now. I'm looking for a fwb!
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