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My family acted as if I didn't exist when "mother" was alive; now that she's dead they want to be "family".  No thanks, I've made it this long w/o them. I'm 44.

My family acted as if I didn't exist when "mother" was alive; now that she's dead they want to be "family". No thanks, I've made it this long w/o them. I'm 44.

 
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Sometimes a family death places in perspective certain elements missing in the family unit. those who are wanting to warm up are seeing the importance of family. You should be more accepting.
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Norman?
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Family is with who you make it to be. Friends are a good replacement.
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Its to late, they probably want something from you, or may think your mother left you with a lot of money. You are right, you don't need them now.
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My mother is still alive, we dont talk. I know one day I'll be in your shoes. I'm sorry...I know your pain.
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I'm sorry you have come to know what this is like. For so long I was alienated and abandoned by my family, treated like a parasite and now they have begun to come knocking. I wander what they'll think when they realize the truth of thier betrayal....I can barely feel anymore...
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So....Now you should consider yourself no better than what you think they are. You are the same as them, by your own choice, by your own decision. You choose, you decide. But you can't blame them. It's not them, it's you.
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Oh you gotta be shittin me. Get your crap together and be a family. At least try, then decide. Don't make a decision like this over some piss-assed baby wawa - cry in your milk reason.
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