Amen to the poster one above. You first have to decide you are worth saving/loving. Then you have to be the first person to step up and actually start acting in that belief. You can't blame people for not doing what you yourself are not doing. When you can love yourself and be an agent of change and happiness, people will naturally want to be around you. Change your mind first, and you will see how quickly your life will change in response.
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Why do people always assume the gender of the poster? There's no reason to think it was a woman or a man, could have been either.
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there's a lid for every pot, don't give up!
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Tough to love someone who cant love themselves enough to bring themselves back to a place of balance.
Get "The Power of Now" it will help you bring some self awareness to your life.
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i have a friend who is a Big girl and she can get a boyfriend like "That!" believe it or not there are people out there who like something to grab onto. however, it's what's inside your Head that's the problem. "Free your mind and the rest will follow." good luck!
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What's not to love?
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Wendy?
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I appreciate the kind comments - for all to know I am planning on gastric bypass surgery - I gained alot of weight after a bad car accident - I was overweight before but now it is even harder to get the weight off since its now hard to walk and stand - the car accident permanently disabled me- and I am on medication and take it regularly - if you leave your email address I will send you an email - and to those who have given up on me and told me im worthless i should die - screw you, you narccisitic, superficial, assholes who only see the outside of people and never see the good deep inside - Ive had alot of bad things that were out of my control happen in my life and I am trying the best that I can to get ahold of my life - to the cheerleaders out there - thanks you are truely beautiful and kind on the inside and that is what matters most!
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You need some help. I am also bipolar. I was over 300 lbs until I had weightloss surgery. Now I am happy and thin. Go see your doctor. Maybe this is right for you. you DO deserve love.
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Heres my email waitin4_paradise@yahoo.com I had gastric bypass not 2 years ago It was a bad point in my lofe. I love alot of weight andf love myself for me now !!
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My stepdaughter has GB and went from 380 to 155. Incredible. You can too.
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Fat doesn't mean unlovable!! Read this article!
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/worldnews/article-1080853/My-big-fat-Mexican-wedding-Half-tonne-man-gets-married--taken-church-custom-truck.html
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Only you can set you free.
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Well I would like to be a friend of yours if you like, you can reach me at ginny_gin05@yahoo.com
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black guys love big girls and will f*** anything that moves. Besides, MTV says its cool to date a black guy. (only smart asian women haven't been fooled)
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Oh, and get on and stay on some bi-polar meds.
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Try to remember it's about loving yourself first.... then you'll find your soul-mate. I'm almost 30 & bi-polar also. I found this great man years ago & have put him through hell over the last 10 years. Good men are hard to find, but they are out there! Just love yourself & it will all fall into place soon. Hang in there...
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I love you :-)
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I get so tired of the mean comments. It wouldn't matter what a person says, someone always has to have a rude comeback. Makes me wonder why they are even on this site.
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