I know, it grosses me out completely and I don't know what to do. I dont get it. I hate my mother.
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That's not all that weird. I've had dreams like that about my dad, sister and uncle. Pretty creepy, but not that rare
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we are sexual curious creatures. don't be hard on yourself.
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Well if you hate her, It's most likely all the emotions and conection you wish you had for her goming out through your dreams
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It is the sickest secret I think I have ever had. I have only told it here. Thank you.
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Dreams mean more than what you think. Just because you dream of having sex with someone doesn't mean you want to. Sex dreams are usually about control of some kind. Check out dream interpretations before you get too worked up.
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I am female and have had the same dream more than once. It grossed me out AND freaked me out, but hearing that I am not the only one makes me feel less weird about it. I am a totally normal, hetrosexual, married 40 year old.
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I think you should discuss the dreams with your counselor. If you feel like you can't discuss it with him or her then perhaps another counselor would be best. Since this is a reoccurring dream it is obviously significant and therefore deserves consideration. Don't be afraid of it. Be curious about the psychological aspect of it. Also, never be afraid of the truth. And, no, the dream doesn't mean you want to have sex with your mother. It functions, as do all dreams, on a symbolic level and needs analysis to unlock its meaning.
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Just to add to the conversation, I am a woman and every so often I have sex dreams about my sister. It repulses me when I wake up. Even thinking of it right now, I have to push the thoughts away. It is disturbing but it must be symbolic or something, it is not something i want with my sister and not something you want with your mother. I know it sucks.
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You have that dream because you subconciously want to love your mother. Whatever the inner conflict you have with your mother is over riding your concious hate. Talk to your counsler. They will understand and try and help. Good luck. Your not a freak.
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Me too. I have always just written it off as me working out Oedipal feelings I may have. It's still really weird and grosses me out when I wake up
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Try telling your counselor. Because you were an only child, your mom may have been the focal point of yuour whole life. As the poster 3 spaces up says, sex dreams are very often about other things--attachment, power, reclaiming control. These are all things your counselor can definitely help you sort out.
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Once again, thank you guys. I really feel a burden lifted, just because I finally said it. I will talk to my counselor about it... when I am ready. Much of what you said makes alot of sense, even given that you don't know my history. Thank you. :)
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Its just a dream. Quit letting it bother you. Dreams are metaphors and they mean something other than what you are seeing. The first poster is an idiot.
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Don't worry about it. Like someone said previously, it has something to do with control issues. I have had the same dream about my mother and my sister.
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I had that dream too a few weeks ago. I am glad other people did too.
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